meet women tonight

to get friends or women to date

where's someone I can try to go tonight to meet people who are cool and no stress and aggression

go to voodoo night club in worcester

ITS GREATT!!

So it's one of those super dooper good vibe kinna things. Haven't been this psyched to go on a date in a while. I'd like to bring her some flowers--nothing heavy duty--as a gesture of the good energy that I'm feeling. But is it too much on the first date?

Flowers, What a lovely gift for her. Enjoy your dinner and spend the rest of the evening with that good vibe enjoying yourselves.

Go ahead, if she is cooking, even better. It's romantic and thoughtful.

no its not! its sweet

No...bring her flowers..she'll love it.

No! that would be very nice and i am sure she would love it. It is always a good idea to give a good impression on the first date!! I would love that if someone did it to me!

to get friends or women to date

where's someone I can try to go tonight to meet people who are cool and no stress and aggression

go to voodoo night club in worcester

ITS GREATT!!

to get friends or women to date

where's someone I can try to go tonight to meet people who are cool and no stress and aggression

go to voodoo night club in worcester

ITS GREATT!!

to get friends or women to date

where's someone I can try to go tonight to meet people who are cool and no stress and aggression

go to voodoo night club in worcester

ITS GREATT!!

i don't know what i want to do anymore, i hate pubs & clubs at night but it seems to be the only way to meet women, so it feels like i'm missing out when i don't go out :S

Join the dance class! It's fun and you meet lots of girls,

I'm just heading round to my boyfriend's house to cook dinner for us all (both of us, my son and his son) and then my daughter and her friend will join us. We will probably play board games/cards etc. I will have a break from all of that to watch my Strictly Come Dancing results show though. Actually the truth is the boys will probably have burping/farting competitions and discuss gross things like boys all do.

I don't know where you are, but if you are in Britain there is a new dance "class" that would suit you to the ground. It is called Ceroc and you don't need to have a partner to go. It is very, very easy to pick up with no formal steps to learn, and you get to dance with loads of women and get a bit of a chat with them as you dance etc. Try the web site below and see if there is a class near you.

I'm planning on watching Corrie and Heartbeat whilst tucking in to mushrooms stuffed with couscous and sunflower seeds :) mmmm.

My dear....pubs and clubs certainly aren't the only places to meet women. You can meet them anywhere if you really put your mind to it. Don't be hasty. Love takes time. It's like a flower. It may take a while to bloom but when it finally does, you'll realise you were never missing out on anything.

Have a wonderful evening xxxxx

Tonight im going to study for my test tommorrow, sounds like pubs and clubs are the only places you know, go outside and look around you theres lots of women everywhere, im not saying its impossible but i doubt that you are going to find the "right" woman at a pub/club drunk and unconsious.

Awww poor you.

I'm stuck at home doing this stupid geography project, which I've left until the last minute. It's soooo annoying!!

Even more so seeming I keep on getting distracted by helping other people on this yahoo answers thing (I'm too addicted to it!) and I keep on also getting distracted by thoughts of my boyfriend =]

Anyway, hope things get better for you.

Its ok, everyone feels like that once in a while. Im just inviting a friend over to watch movies at my place.

I might see my boyfriend (damnn i hope i do)

and will probably stay up until 12:00 on the phone.

If you want to meet more women, just get involved with more social activites.

Why do you hate pubs and bars? that is a good way to meet other people.

Heyy,

well seeing as its a sunday and i have school tommoroww, i guess i'll just stay in and get things ready for school (: and listen to music and chat to friends on bebo and msn loool, not very interestingg reallyy, i'll proberly end up doing some revising, but who cares, i wanna do well o my exams! (: x

I know that feeling, i am increasingly growing apart from my mates, i love em all to bits but we have nothing in common, its getting so bad that i never really see them and due to this and generally how im feeling at the moment i am seriously considering working my *** off to save enough money to go travelling, if this sounds like anything that might interest you and you wouldn't mind chatting and getting to know other travellers go on this site

www.travellersconnected.com

If you are that fed up mate i recommend having a serious look in to this

If your not into bars, do a my space page, or join a online site , but be careful, alot of people lie and you need to to exchange a few e-mails and Phone calls, before meeting.

Bars are not for everyone. Good Luck

Im going to study

i have finals on friday

but in your case, i suggest you join a class (small course) for there will be many sensible girls you can date

im just staying home and doing home work!!

BORING!

please help me

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20081012084317AADDaby

Well, i was gonna go to the mall today... and tonight i was probably gonna relax at home with hot cocoa!! (it snowed last night =] )

I'm not doing anything exciting. Have you tried finding someone on here? Post a question like anyone want to go out tonight.

Watch TV, txt friends, call my boyfriend (maybe). Get some cheesy movies and popcorn. The usual. Its not boring. I think its relaxing.

I'm going to the park with my boyfriend and bestfrand

First date tonight with a woman I have met at a few parties. Am planning a hike along a nice little stream that ends with a wonderful view of a waterfall. She has told me that she likes to eat healthy, but cannot think of anything to bring. Does anyone have any idea?

Ploughman's Lunch

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ploughman's_lunch

Loosely - some bread, cheese, pieces of veggie, some fresh fruit. Oh a little bottle of wine or champagne would be good too.

Ideally, it will all be finger food or bite-sized pieces - something you can kind of graze through. Anyway, the idea is bread, cheese, veggies, and fruit. If you really need to, you could add some cold meats sliced and rolled up on a toothpick, like ham, turkey, or roast beef...

Forget salad dressing, fork and knife, big chunks of leafy greens or anything else that's too much mess or work.

Maybe you could bring a mini-cheese cake for dessert, and a thermos of coffee.

Fruits, nuts, and some wine and cheese, I think, would set the mood you want and also be healthy in nature. Pick a red wine. From what I understand, they are healthier and less fattening than white wines. Have a good time.

Pita sandwich (chicken salad, or turkey). With some kind of veggies and dip or a nice tossed salad. Hope your date is awesome!

Here is a recipe, but you should probably only use half, and you could use FF mayo or Reduced fat mayo instead.

INGREDIENTS

6 boneless chicken breast halves, cooked and diced

1 cup chopped celery

1 teaspoon garlic powder

salt and pepper to taste

1 cup mayonnaise

DIRECTIONS

Combine the chicken, celery, spice blend and mayonnaise. Mix all together; more or less mayonnaise can be added, depending on your preference. Stuff into pita. Voila, your summer salad is ready to serve!

simple lite sandwhichs, fruit wedges/salad or vege salad, healthy pasta salad, bottled water/ tea/ lemonade.

hummus spread (chick pea dip, comes in all kinds of flavors) with pita wedges, fresh fruit is always nice (strawberries or something).

Cheese (not prepackages American) crackers and wine are always a good choice.

Has she mentioned any foods before? if so, try to find that, you will know she likes it and she will be impressed you remembered.

If not, use above mentioned foods. Good luck!

Try finger sandwiches cut into little triangles: egg salad, tuna or chicken salad, and cucumber sandwiches are decent suggestions. Also, try a cheese and vegetable tray with fat free dressing or a vinegarette dip and crackers. for desert, get a fruit salad in a bowl.

There are many healthy salad to choose from

Just care a small soft side cooler and you have it made.

Grilled Chicken Salad with Bleu Cheese and Raspberry-Walnut Vinaigrette

8 ounces precooked chicken strips

1 bag salad mix (without dressing)

1 can mandarin orange sections, drained

4 T. walnuts

1 C. crumbled bleu cheese

1 small red onion, sliced

1/2 C. bottled light raspberry-walnut vinaigrette

Place salad mix in a large bowl. Top with remaining ingredients.

Toss with dressing.

Makes 4 servings

Many other choices here

Tyson makes a precooked roasted chicken which is delicious. Take the chicken, some assorted cheese cubes, some grapes, apples, pears (etc. ) and some whole grain croissants, and a bottle of wine. All of this can be purchased at Walmart. Don't forget some wet wipes. Good luck.

I met a woman tonight (friend's sister) and her children today. I was surprised at the way she spoke to her 4 1/2 month old. The baby girl cried a few times, she'd just look at her on the floor and say "I'm not holding you, fatty." and leave her on the blanket. Eventually she picked her up to feed her and said "You're a pain in the butt, I'm gonna throw you in the trash." this was in a "joking" voice, but why even say it? These are just examples, this went on all evening.

I feel so sorry for the baby. If she were my child I'd be holding her non-stop and cuddling her.

I would say call CPS, you can remain anonymous. If she was really sick through her pregnancy then she may resent the baby. I would call them and hope for the best at the least she will watch the way she talks to her children. Joking or not that is very very wrong.

Chances are nothing will happen but she may harm the child it happens more then you know. I did a report on inficide and the numbers are more then alarming. Just give them a call and they will investigate it will turn out ok. I would rather have them investigate me if there was not a problem and be over cautious then ignore a claim and result in the death of a child.

She's a real idiot and not a mother. There's a difference between being a mother and being a woman with a baby and she is the latter. For the child's sake I pray that things change before she gets older and can remember the verbal abuse.

Call CPS because if she does this in public I can't imagine what goes on in private. If there's nothing wrong they will see that but better safe than sorry with small children.

Joking or not. As her behavior continue's as the child gets older, the child will have self esteem issue's. Calling her fatty and using such threats can cause a child to feel worthless and question the devotion and love for them. Especially if she ignores her child (as she did when the infant was crying) with such sentence as what she said, the fate of this child is not good.

This is exactly the point in how children are today, because of "parents" like your friend's sister.

I joke with my child but I would never call her "fatty". I had an awful pregnancy too and an even worse birth and it makes me enjoy my daughter even more. So what, I had to go through 9 months of morning sickness and 15 hours of labor, but it was worth. I would do it all over again to see her beautiful face, the first time she smiled, and the first time she said mama.

Did she treat her other children that way? If she did then I think she may have a problem. Not a physical abuser but maybe and emotional one. Like blaming everyone, including her children for her problems i.e. sickness, lack of money, dirty home and so on. I would talk to her. Tell her that the things that she is saying have potential to cause irrecoverable harm to her children and ask her is she may be suffering from post partem depression. She may get mad but you've at least made her aware.

Good luck!

yah thats not good tell your sister bout it shelel say somin bout it

i have 4 children and 1 on the way and i would never speak to a baby that way she does not deserve the honer and privilege of being a mother

Sounds like she's just a sarcastic joker. Don't take it seriously, and don't worry about it.

It could be postpartum depression, or she could just be one of those women that does not deserve to have a baby. Either way, there isn't much you can do... it is so sad.

Try talking to your friend about it... she may be able to help her sister.

If you encounter it again, say something like "you seems really stretched thin... would you like some help some time so you can get away?" She might get the hint that he behavior is not normal.

Why say it? For some women, it is a desperate cry for someone to PLEASE HELP!!! Is she a single mom, or a mom with a very uninvolved husband?

Sounds like that infant has an infantile parent.

I bet she has postpartum depression. I had it bad 2 times. She probably needs medical help. I did not speak to my babies this way it was directed to myself, but I know others have thoughts directed at their children. That is not normal

All I can say is how sad for that baby, If she keeps talking to her that way, when she understands then that baby might grow up to have a very low self esteam, I agree with you totally. we need to instil self worth into our children so they can grow up to succeed in life, thats so hard to do anyway in todays times, But i think it makes it even harder if your child is growing up thinking they are nothing.

I'll say joking things to my daughter, but I wouldn't call her fatty or tell her I was going to throw her in the trash. I doubt its a result of a difficult pregnancy, she probably is just joking. Maybe if you see her again and she continues in this way just mention that while it may be harmless now, she'll be understanding everything people say to her very soon and even though its a joke it could hurt her self esteem in the long run. I call my daughter weirdo, but I also call myself and my husband weirdo. It suits all of us and its not mean.

well its her fuckin problem she got pregant not the kid

Wow. That's just wrong, joking voice or not. When you think about it, a lot of people say what they truly mean when they are "joking". Poor baby. Keep an eye on her in the future...

I would speak to your friend about it and see what she thinks. Follow you heart and if you think this baby is in some real trouble then you should call CPS. God Bless You!

That poor child. That is horrible, if the mom is really doing that sort of thing.

I had horribly complicated pgcies with my two children, including a miscarriage before my first child came about. I could never say things like that to them.

:( My heart hurts for that baby. This mother really needs some help, it concerns me that she "jokes' abuot throwing her little one in the trash. That's no joking matter.

Doesn't sound healthy. Could it be postpartum depression, maybe? If you want to help them both, take it from me: DON'T criticize the mother! I found out the hard way that that just makes the problem worse.

If Mom won't hold the baby, you might pick her up yourself and say something positive about her. If Mom talks about how sick she was, you could mention how lucky she is to have such a beautiful baby after a difficult pregnancy, that sort of thing. See if you can get Mom to take a more active interest in her little one. God bless you!

wow, i don't think she should even be a mother. i couldn't imagine saying things like that to anyone, especially not to someone who i'm supposed to love with all my heart. i have a little boy, he's 2, and he's my world. kids have feelings too, and when her daughter get's older, if you still know her, you will see the effects of being spoken to like that. that's really sad. babies need to be spoken to in a way that you want them to speak because they learn from everything that's around them.

Joking or not there can be long term effects to the child if mother is doing it jokingly now is it going to be for real later when the child is older and can understand the meaning of the words.

no, i do think you are overreacting. As you said it was said in a joking tone, I do that with my kids when they are young like that.

I love this man so much, he's the most sensitive & wonderful man I know. This has only happened 4 times in 2 years but I dont feel comfortable with it. I dont mind him having business contacts & his friends but I feel like the women get too personal & infatuated with him calling him endearing names, he tells them he has a sweetheart & asks them nicely not to say those things to him. He told a woman tonight she should be calling her husband those endearing names. He encourages them to work on their relationships. Besides them being infatuated or idealizing him for the kind of profession he's in, they quickly discover they are chatting with a very unusual man, very compassionate & kind hearted human being. That seems to make them want to cling to him. I think its crazy how people get so bold online, do & say things they wouldn't say to any stranger they met in the real world!

I see no huge problem with him talking to women, as long as he's not cheating.

The problem i do have is the HUGE amount of time he spends doing it when he should be spending his time and giving his attention to you.

Why does he feel the need to do this?

Is he insecure?

Is he bored with your relationship?

I would disagree with your comment that he's sensitive, he clearly isn't sensative to your needs or you wouldn't be asking this question.

How would he feel if you spent two hours talking to other men?

Would he be ok with that?

I doubt it very, very much.

You need to sort this out, there is no way you can marry a man who puts other people first in your relationship.

Secondly, all these women don't just 'turn' infatuated with him by chance, this is because of the way he deals with them, they way he talks to them and very simply he has to stop doing what he's doing, it's within his control.

What if of them falls for him?

What if she does everything she can to split you up?

Offers him sex on the day you've had an massive argument?

If he doesn't then i think you need to question if this is the man you want to spend the rest of your life with.

You should be concerned. He is not doing enough to stop the chats, etc.

Of course they like him because he is nice to them and listens. He needs to devote more time / attention to you.

There is no room in your relationship for those women.

Make it clear.

How sensitive can he be if he is talking to other women for hours KNOWING it bothers you?

The problem here is not the bold women on the line...its your man! You seem a bit blinded by love to me to not understand that.

I wouldn't be too concerned about the other women if your relationship is strong. What isn't right is the amount of time he spends with them. Those are lost hours that could be spent doing something more beneficial.

What would worry me is the fact he chats to these women - which is encouraging them somewhat! Why does he feel the need to talk to women online - cant he have a conversation with you???

xx

and tonight it happens!!

I am so exited I re-taped my horn rimmed glasses and slicked back my mullet!

Do you think she would rather walk to McDonalds and Ill drive and meet her there or should i buy her a bus pass?

Don't forget to order a nice bottle of something at McDonalds, like Coca Cola 2008 - a fine year.

I think I understand how you feel. When I was 21, I became an art teacher and developed such a crush on a student who was 13 at the time. Of course, I never said anything or showed my attraction.

I ran into her again after 21 years. We had lunch and I find that I'm still attracted to her now. I'd love to have a real date with her, but if it doesn't happen, I won't lose sleep over it.

Anyway, it sounds like you have a car. If this date is as important to you as it sounds, being a cheap **** will ruin it for sure. Instead of having her take the bus, drive her to a decent diner instead. The atmosphere should be nicer. If you don't have a car, ride the bus with her.

Lose the taped glasses, if you're able to go without wearing them. If you do need them, try Krazy Glue instead, though be careful or the fumes will burn your eyes.

Good Luck!

Be a gentleman, and buy the bus pass. Nobody likes a scrub, mullet or not.

oh my god that is more than half of your life...do you not have a life? If it does not work out I feel sorry for you...I wouldn't remember a woman that long even if I am in crush or liked her...

If you really want to knock her socks off, take her to KFC. Impress her with your ability to buy a classy meal and use real plastic utensils!

She would rather walk to Mcdonalds and enjoy the cool breeze..

She will enjoy a brisk walk.

funny but cheap, go pick her up fool

I'm meeting a woman tonight and meeting a couple tomorrow night. I don't intend anything sexual to go on as I'm just meeting them, but as we all know things could change as the night goes on.

Should I not be too worried as to what this would be defined as?

I think that would make you a woman that enjoys casual sex.

Just be careful, and dont worry what other people think.

Dont try to label yourself, either. Just be who you are.

Not at all. But then only you know why you are meeting these people. If its just a friendly get together then you have nothing to worry about. As long as you stick to that belief then nothing will happen that will make you concerned about what it is defined as. Its funny, people get together all the time and no one thinks that its out of the ordinary. But you do. Why?

No you shouldent, I think youre curious and you want to find out a lil more about what youre feeling or thinking. Just go for it and see for yourself!

How well do you this female? What about the couple? I don't know how old you are, but, today you got to be very careful on who you meet. It can be dangerous to meet people. Things could happen that you dint want to happen. Just be careful and know your surroundings and a quick get away!! Also I would like to tell you something that happened to a female friend of mine who did the same thing, and what happened to her, please e-mail me and Ill tell you the story.

have your fun and define it tomorrow . Enjoy -

There shouldn't be any concern about being labeled. Sounds to me like a healthy, active sex life, no worries there.

No, you are who you are!!! Just make sure your well protected if you do something extra.

P.S.---Yay threesome!!!!

an alien!! LAOSVKAOSVBJKLASVÖMAV

i met a woman on a phone chat line, we talked, off and on, for about 2 weeks, then, one night, she said," i want to meet you tonight! this is what i want you to do.........." and i'll tell you the rest later! it is worth the wait, so tell me about YOUR most interesting/strangest/weirdest first time meeting with someone?

This guy came over to me in the 6th grade and started playing with my arm fat (not that there's much to play with). He's still one of my closest friends 10yrs later.

heres my address,hang up,take shower,door will be open,lock it, go into bedroom, get naked, and into bed!if i am awake, we will have fun!if not,snuggle up w/ me,we'll have fun in the morning!twice,i went to her house,had lots of fun,was sent home!never saw each other till 3rd night,she was HOT! http://answers.yahoo.com/question/accuse_write?qid=20070326181511AAKHSmd&kid=IrppPlvjWW99cXzJO4xR&s=comm&date=2007-03-29+22%3A58%3A06&.crumb=

could not believe how hot she was,finally seeing each other the 3rd night, lights on, we saw each other for about a month, she was too stuck on herself,tho, and came from a rich family! DAMMIT, what was i thinking??? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/accuse_write?qid=20070326181511AAKHSmd&kid=IrppPlvjWW99cXzJO4xR&s=comm&date=2007-03-29+22%3A59%3A48&.crumb=

Regular party and got into the VIP room

never had something like that

i was white water rafting and got flipped out of my boat and i came up under her boat and had to hand myself to the side of her boat and then she helped me in to her boat.

met mommy in a dumpster

Last year I had to go to the Navy base to get my taxes done...and 8 months later I started dating the guy who did them (he had a girlfriend when I first met him)

We have been talking online for about 2 years now. Got really close. I know I am the only woman in his life.

And I am meeting him tonight for the first time.

I drove here 3 days ago, stayed at a friend. We were suppose to meet the night I got here, but I got here too late. The next day I text him (We text more then calling, because he hates to talk on the phone. We did talked on the phone, often. Just that he prefer texts) and he is having one of these typical virgo "i'm nervous" moment. I understand, Next day, he message me, saying he wants me to go at his house, I ask when, he say tomorrow (aka tonight) and I tell him to text me when he can meet me somewhere to help me get to his house because the directions I have aren't clear. He looked at his messages at noone, haven't reply. It's 4pm. He hasn't text yet. Should I text him or wait? And anyone dating virgos can tell me about how your first date went? Talk to me about virgos. Thank you

Do NOT meet anyone for the first time in HIS home. It's not prudent. Two years of communication online doesn't count. First time face to face meetings should take place in PUBLIC. Your friend should know where and when you're meeting. Your friend should know the first and last name of the person you're meeting. Your friend should know the home address of the person you're meeting.

The person you're meeting should know that you have a person, who is your friend, who knows these things.

The reason for this is simple. Should he have dishonorable intent he knows that his name and home address are known to someone who will tell the authorities should something happen to you.

Do you know martial arts? Are you able to defend yourself should he turn out to be predatory? If not then the back up plan has to be in place.

I'm not talking out of my hat here. All the women I know who have met men online have put this plan into action. Some have had men call off the meeting knowing that this woman isn't walking into a situation blind. These men were not worth meeting.

As a Capricorn you have to know that I'm speaking to your conservative core. Please consider my suggestion of having the first meeting in public. Wear shoes you can either run with or kick with, no high heels.

I've been married to Virgo for 27 years :)

As you probaby know, your sign is very compatible with Virgo. Don't worry....Virgos are worriers, and he'll have enough for both of you! If you want to text him, go right ahead; Virgo doesn't always like to take the lead and often needs encouragement.

Dress nice, act classy, and don't let any emotions run away with you. After two years of talking, you already know each other pretty well. He already cares about you; Virgo is the very least likely man to be a "player". Just be yourself; I have a feeling that this is the beginning of a long relationship!

Hi Ana,

I answered your other question you posted. I didn't realize you and him had never met previously, but I'm sure my advice still applies and I hope you two have met. My Capricorn is not a phone person either, at least not in the evenings. He enjoys when I call him first thing in the morning when I get to work.

I am a Virgo female, so I will tell you about my first date with my Capricorn. Upon initially meeting, we were both immediately attracted to one another, but didn't act on it. I met him on the bus, ( he drives for the Smart Transit system) when my car broke down. For two weeks, I would watch him in the mirrors to see if he was looking at me. I would pay extra special attention to what I chose to wear each day. I know that sounds silly and I the bus ride could have been no more than five minutes, but I was totally smitten. Even when we exchanged pleasantries, it seemed it had not affect. He always kept his face serious looking, so finally I thought, he has to be married or already in a relationship and I would just settle for looking at him everyday. Well one day, I missed the bus that connects to his bus and he thought he was never going to see me again. Luckily, I made it just before he pulled off and when I got ready to get off the bus, he handed me a business card. On the back of the card, it read, Dinner Maybe with his phone number. We talked into the wee hours of the night and I discovered that he thought I wasn't interested in him and he also thought I was in a relationship as well, but he said when he thought he was never going to see me again, he told himself if I ever see her again, I am going to take my chances. On our first date, I was giggly nervous and I wanted to look really nice for him. He worked that day and didn't pick me up until nearly midnight. Why did we have on the same colors and we were dressed casually conservative? We both laughed at that. We were so comfortable with one another. . . I've never been that comfortable with anyone before. We instinctly held hands and we wanted to sit next to one another instead of across from one another. It was awesome and two years later, we are still together. We still marvel at how we almost missed our chance because we were assuming the same thing about one another.

Two years to meet up!?!? That's nervous/shy?

Shame you haven't given us his birth date, then we'd have more to go on than his Sun sign "Virgo".

Even if you could tell us what year he was born in we might be able to tell you something you don't already know.

Good luck!

Ax

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capricorns are very compatible with virgos! congratulations!

but that doesnt define everything.

try calling.

Just be yourself cos he'll eventually see right through you later on if you try acting 'fake' now, ALOT of Virgo man/ female ???? relationships failed b/c of this reason.

and wait for him to call or text- otherwise he'll think you are very needy. A big no-no in his eyes.

Cos I often hear/read of women being stood up by these guys alot- don't worry too much cos he's probably being worried enough for the both of you right now- most likely hyper-ventilating....btw this is normal Virgo behavior. If he does finally get back to you- it all depends cos I know they can be very secure Virgos out there, maybe he could possibly be running late but please, don't start texting him non-stop or he'll think you are very clingy- they guys need their space like the flowers need rain.

Be patient with this man.

If he stands you up- which I hope not, then you know what to expect next time or unless he cancels and gives you a sensible reason.

** Remember too that when these guys get nervous - it affects their digestive system.

We have been talking online for about 2 years now. Got really close. I know I am the only woman in his life.

And I am meeting him tonight for the first time.

I drove here 3 days ago, stayed at a friend. We were suppose to meet the night I got here, but I got here too late. The next day I text him (We text more then calling, because he hates to talk on the phone. We did talked on the phone, often. Just that he prefer texts) and he is having one of these typical virgo "i'm nervous" moment. I understand, Next day, he message me, saying he wants me to go at his house, I ask when, he say tomorrow (aka tonight) and I tell him to text me when he can meet me somewhere to help me get to his house because the directions I have aren't clear. He looked at his messages at noone, haven't reply. It's 4pm. He hasn't text yet. Should I text him or wait? And anyone dating virgos can tell me about how your first date went? Talk to me about virgos. Thank you

Do NOT meet anyone for the first time in HIS home. It's not prudent. Two years of communication online doesn't count. First time face to face meetings should take place in PUBLIC. Your friend should know where and when you're meeting. Your friend should know the first and last name of the person you're meeting. Your friend should know the home address of the person you're meeting.

The person you're meeting should know that you have a person, who is your friend, who knows these things.

The reason for this is simple. Should he have dishonorable intent he knows that his name and home address are known to someone who will tell the authorities should something happen to you.

Do you know martial arts? Are you able to defend yourself should he turn out to be predatory? If not then the back up plan has to be in place.

I'm not talking out of my hat here. All the women I know who have met men online have put this plan into action. Some have had men call off the meeting knowing that this woman isn't walking into a situation blind. These men were not worth meeting.

As a Capricorn you have to know that I'm speaking to your conservative core. Please consider my suggestion of having the first meeting in public. Wear shoes you can either run with or kick with, no high heels.

I've been married to Virgo for 27 years :)

As you probaby know, your sign is very compatible with Virgo. Don't worry....Virgos are worriers, and he'll have enough for both of you! If you want to text him, go right ahead; Virgo doesn't always like to take the lead and often needs encouragement.

Dress nice, act classy, and don't let any emotions run away with you. After two years of talking, you already know each other pretty well. He already cares about you; Virgo is the very least likely man to be a "player". Just be yourself; I have a feeling that this is the beginning of a long relationship!

Hi Ana,

I answered your other question you posted. I didn't realize you and him had never met previously, but I'm sure my advice still applies and I hope you two have met. My Capricorn is not a phone person either, at least not in the evenings. He enjoys when I call him first thing in the morning when I get to work.

I am a Virgo female, so I will tell you about my first date with my Capricorn. Upon initially meeting, we were both immediately attracted to one another, but didn't act on it. I met him on the bus, ( he drives for the Smart Transit system) when my car broke down. For two weeks, I would watch him in the mirrors to see if he was looking at me. I would pay extra special attention to what I chose to wear each day. I know that sounds silly and I the bus ride could have been no more than five minutes, but I was totally smitten. Even when we exchanged pleasantries, it seemed it had not affect. He always kept his face serious looking, so finally I thought, he has to be married or already in a relationship and I would just settle for looking at him everyday. Well one day, I missed the bus that connects to his bus and he thought he was never going to see me again. Luckily, I made it just before he pulled off and when I got ready to get off the bus, he handed me a business card. On the back of the card, it read, Dinner Maybe with his phone number. We talked into the wee hours of the night and I discovered that he thought I wasn't interested in him and he also thought I was in a relationship as well, but he said when he thought he was never going to see me again, he told himself if I ever see her again, I am going to take my chances. On our first date, I was giggly nervous and I wanted to look really nice for him. He worked that day and didn't pick me up until nearly midnight. Why did we have on the same colors and we were dressed casually conservative? We both laughed at that. We were so comfortable with one another. . . I've never been that comfortable with anyone before. We instinctly held hands and we wanted to sit next to one another instead of across from one another. It was awesome and two years later, we are still together. We still marvel at how we almost missed our chance because we were assuming the same thing about one another.

Two years to meet up!?!? That's nervous/shy?

Shame you haven't given us his birth date, then we'd have more to go on than his Sun sign "Virgo".

Even if you could tell us what year he was born in we might be able to tell you something you don't already know.

Good luck!

Ax

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capricorns are very compatible with virgos! congratulations!

but that doesnt define everything.

try calling.

Just be yourself cos he'll eventually see right through you later on if you try acting 'fake' now, ALOT of Virgo man/ female ???? relationships failed b/c of this reason.

and wait for him to call or text- otherwise he'll think you are very needy. A big no-no in his eyes.

Cos I often hear/read of women being stood up by these guys alot- don't worry too much cos he's probably being worried enough for the both of you right now- most likely hyper-ventilating....btw this is normal Virgo behavior. If he does finally get back to you- it all depends cos I know they can be very secure Virgos out there, maybe he could possibly be running late but please, don't start texting him non-stop or he'll think you are very clingy- they guys need their space like the flowers need rain.

Be patient with this man.

If he stands you up- which I hope not, then you know what to expect next time or unless he cancels and gives you a sensible reason.

** Remember too that when these guys get nervous - it affects their digestive system.

I met a woman tonight who (ironically) her husband just graduated from BCT and was going to Fort Eustis, Virginia, for his AIT, where my husband is also going, and for the same MOS as my husband (15T UH-60 Black Hawk Repairer). He found out when he got there that there was like a 10 week waiting list to start, so he had to stay there and do random jobs until then. Has anyone ever heard of this?? Also, is there a way my husband can change his MOS before he goes through the same thing???

HELP!

This is not that unusual. I've read some of the other answers and they jive with my experiences. As one of the others said, military training of any kind is expensive to conduct, so what the services do is wait until they have enough people to fill all the training seats before they start a class. From a business sense, this is wise use of taxpayer dollars. The military might waste money in other areas, but this is one area where little waste takes place. Training dollars are tight and hard to come by. When I went to Basic Airborne training (Jump School) at Fort Benning, Georgia, the same thing happened to me and some others. There, they called it "Zero Week" and we were required to do very much the same things. Odd jobs to earn our paychecks. Stuff that just needs to get done. Don't sweat it. Tell your husband not to sweat it. Stuff happens. It's just part of Army life. I agree with what one of the other ladies said about supporting your husband. It's good advice. I couldn't have done my time in the military without my wife and family's love and support. Don't worry. Your husband will get his training.

More than likely the husband of the women you talked to, had a unexpected delay somewhere along the way.

IE:

He got hurt or sick in boot and didn't graduate with the Platoon he entered boot with.

The military is pretty good at getting people into boot at the right time, to get them to AIT right before thier AIT class starts.

Holds of a few days to couple of weeks aren't unexpected, but with a 10 week hold, it had to be for other reasons.

Getting people into boot at the right time, to graduate in time for thier AIT, is the biggest reason for the DEP program.

That way they won't have those long holds before thier AIT starts.

I wouldn't worry about it, the chances of it happening to your husband are slim.

Plus, why would he want to change his MOS, just based on having to wait several weeks to start AIT ?

He is training for a job he will be doing for years, whats several weeks in the long view of things ?

He might be able to but it is very doubtful. yes they can do whatever they want, place him wherever he is qualified whether he wants to or not. He signed a contract. He only requested MOS preferences. They state that you get placed in whichever MOS the military needs you in. If there is a waiting period they can have him on work detail or duty details or something. or do odds and ends on and around base. Its not a bad thing. Hes still getting paid. so yea. nothing to really worry about.

No, you cannot change your MOS, and yes, you have to wait until there is an opening in that particular AIT program.

Go thru the chain of command.

It's not unheard of. When I went through AIT I had a period of about 3 weeks where I was in a "hold-under" status like your husband. No, he won't be able to change his MOS until 6 months after he is MOS-qualified. his contract, is his contract. Just send him lots of letters and support. He'll be home soon enough. Hooah.

My answerer as a veteran Navy wife:

Training school starting dates are scheduled at set intervals to achieve optimal class size (not too small and not too large). Sometimes that means individual students must wait to begin and sometimes students don't. As an old hand at military scheduling oddities my advice to you and your husband is to enjoy whatever wait time you can get. Once his training starts in earnest he'll have to devote all of his energy to his studies and after he completes training it'll be off to a new duty assignment. You'll wish for the days when he had less stress and more time to spend with you. If he chafes under the feeling that the duties he's assigned while awaiting the start of training are unimportant, remind him that support positions are the backbone of the military and that you're proud of him for filling the void with meaningful service until his training starts.

Personnel advice to you:

Love him NOW with everything you've got. The men and women serving in the military today are more likely to face combat then any other time in this country's history. They deserve our unconditional support and appreciation. I know all too well what you have to look forward to, the worry and the pride. THANK YOU for your sacrifices as the wife of a service member and please pass my thanks along to your husband for his service to our country.

This is standard procedure. The classes cost a considerable chunk of change to present, so they wait until there are the required number of candidates on hand before they begin. As far as changing his MOS, your husband is stuck with it, unless he can get into WOCS or one of the other specialty training programs the Army has. Most of the specialty programs require an MOS qualified soldier, however. Also, unfortunately, the 10 week delay isn't long enough to qualify for a PCS move, so he can't even have the government pay to move you to where he is. I feel sorry for you in your situation, but it happens fairly often in the more technical MOS's.

it must be a desirable MOS ..so wait for it if that's what you want ..if not go to your CO

I met a woman tonight who (ironically) her husband just graduated from BCT and was going to Fort Eustis, Virginia, for his AIT, where my husband is also going, and for the same MOS as my husband (15T UH-60 Black Hawk Repairer). He found out when he got there that there was like a 10 week waiting list to start, so he had to stay there and do random jobs until then. Has anyone ever heard of this?? Also, is there a way my husband can change his MOS before he goes through the same thing???

HELP!

This is not that unusual. I've read some of the other answers and they jive with my experiences. As one of the others said, military training of any kind is expensive to conduct, so what the services do is wait until they have enough people to fill all the training seats before they start a class. From a business sense, this is wise use of taxpayer dollars. The military might waste money in other areas, but this is one area where little waste takes place. Training dollars are tight and hard to come by. When I went to Basic Airborne training (Jump School) at Fort Benning, Georgia, the same thing happened to me and some others. There, they called it "Zero Week" and we were required to do very much the same things. Odd jobs to earn our paychecks. Stuff that just needs to get done. Don't sweat it. Tell your husband not to sweat it. Stuff happens. It's just part of Army life. I agree with what one of the other ladies said about supporting your husband. It's good advice. I couldn't have done my time in the military without my wife and family's love and support. Don't worry. Your husband will get his training.

More than likely the husband of the women you talked to, had a unexpected delay somewhere along the way.

IE:

He got hurt or sick in boot and didn't graduate with the Platoon he entered boot with.

The military is pretty good at getting people into boot at the right time, to get them to AIT right before thier AIT class starts.

Holds of a few days to couple of weeks aren't unexpected, but with a 10 week hold, it had to be for other reasons.

Getting people into boot at the right time, to graduate in time for thier AIT, is the biggest reason for the DEP program.

That way they won't have those long holds before thier AIT starts.

I wouldn't worry about it, the chances of it happening to your husband are slim.

Plus, why would he want to change his MOS, just based on having to wait several weeks to start AIT ?

He is training for a job he will be doing for years, whats several weeks in the long view of things ?

He might be able to but it is very doubtful. yes they can do whatever they want, place him wherever he is qualified whether he wants to or not. He signed a contract. He only requested MOS preferences. They state that you get placed in whichever MOS the military needs you in. If there is a waiting period they can have him on work detail or duty details or something. or do odds and ends on and around base. Its not a bad thing. Hes still getting paid. so yea. nothing to really worry about.

No, you cannot change your MOS, and yes, you have to wait until there is an opening in that particular AIT program.

Go thru the chain of command.

It's not unheard of. When I went through AIT I had a period of about 3 weeks where I was in a "hold-under" status like your husband. No, he won't be able to change his MOS until 6 months after he is MOS-qualified. his contract, is his contract. Just send him lots of letters and support. He'll be home soon enough. Hooah.

My answerer as a veteran Navy wife:

Training school starting dates are scheduled at set intervals to achieve optimal class size (not too small and not too large). Sometimes that means individual students must wait to begin and sometimes students don't. As an old hand at military scheduling oddities my advice to you and your husband is to enjoy whatever wait time you can get. Once his training starts in earnest he'll have to devote all of his energy to his studies and after he completes training it'll be off to a new duty assignment. You'll wish for the days when he had less stress and more time to spend with you. If he chafes under the feeling that the duties he's assigned while awaiting the start of training are unimportant, remind him that support positions are the backbone of the military and that you're proud of him for filling the void with meaningful service until his training starts.

Personnel advice to you:

Love him NOW with everything you've got. The men and women serving in the military today are more likely to face combat then any other time in this country's history. They deserve our unconditional support and appreciation. I know all too well what you have to look forward to, the worry and the pride. THANK YOU for your sacrifices as the wife of a service member and please pass my thanks along to your husband for his service to our country.

This is standard procedure. The classes cost a considerable chunk of change to present, so they wait until there are the required number of candidates on hand before they begin. As far as changing his MOS, your husband is stuck with it, unless he can get into WOCS or one of the other specialty training programs the Army has. Most of the specialty programs require an MOS qualified soldier, however. Also, unfortunately, the 10 week delay isn't long enough to qualify for a PCS move, so he can't even have the government pay to move you to where he is. I feel sorry for you in your situation, but it happens fairly often in the more technical MOS's.

it must be a desirable MOS ..so wait for it if that's what you want ..if not go to your CO

I wrote about this pregnant woman (5 mos. along) earlier in this thread:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ArYIOM7pqUmL64cuxJXc4lTty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080428082905AAa2v2K

I saw her again tonight, and we got into our usual cute back-and-forth. But I was with someone, so offered to meet her at a private place that I had a key to in 15 minutes. I told her that no one should be there on a Friday night. She jumped at the idea.

Now, the odds of the place we were to meet being completely empty was 99.9%. I'd never seen anyone there on a Friday night, and used to go there a lot to escape the (now ex) wife when we were arguing.

But tonight there was someone there, fooling around on a computer, so the pregnant woman and I could only talk on the sofa -- for over an hour. The stupid person on the computer just wouldn't get the message and leave!

I did notice a wedding ring on the pregnant woman. What do you think my odds of scoring were? I think she's very cute.

You might have a chance.

No moral judgements, just one question.

If a professor is getting over a divorce due to his wife's infidelity, and a broken heart after a brief but intense affair with a younger girl and look were it got you.

Why would the professor want to possibly ruin the marriage of this pregnant woman. What if her husband found out and was to leave, that would leave one more single parent and fatherless child to cope on their own.

It has happened to you and your children. Would you want to chance that hurt onto a new family?

It'd take a fool to not see what you were up to...so I'd think she should've known what was up.

You said no moral judgements, but I can't help it...she's pregnant and wearing a wedding band, what does that say to you??? Which she should've had her butt at home with her husband instead of "trying to get it on" with you also. You are both behaving badly.

If she's willing to go meet you alone, then I'm sure you had/have a chance, although I strongly caution you. I know you don't want anyone to tell you that what you want is wrong, but you're gonna hear it anyway. Pretty sick, dude.

sleeping with a married woman is nasty and the fact she is preg is even worse how would you like it if a nother man was bagging your baby in the head you suck

If you don't want moral judgment for the question your asking, DON'T ASK the question.

Because having an affair with a married woman is WRONG, doesn't matter if she's pregnant or not.

are there no sinlge, not pregnant women you could meet where you are? do you have no morals at all?

why dontcha try lookin for both of those???

sicko

No shot. They love the kid more than the sex.

If you are too shy, awkward, or chicken to make your move, then NO!

You had NO chance with her.

She thought she was going to get some too....

You didn't talk about if she was married? what did you talk about??

Are you a normal person, You didn't hit you head and hurt you self

yes i think u should go for it cause well she cant get prego and that's a good thing.

um, okay, no moral judgments. I think your chances of scoring were very good based on what you told us. A lot of single women wear wedding rings.

edit - hey, what's with the thumbs down? He asked for no moral judgments, so I just answered the question that "yes, he did have a very good chance of scoring." This in no way means I condone this or think it's a good idea. Those who know me or read my other posts, know how I feel about things like this. Also, it's a well known fact that a lot of single women wear wedding rings to deter unwanted attention or in this case, to give the impression she is married to the baby's father.

are u freaking joking dude leave her alone. she is marred u might not have morals but she might. she is married and pg. that is a dubble wammy. if i knew u i would be hitting u in the head right now too put u in the right mind frame. u know why that person was there. the unforseen reason someone knew what u were thinking and took it into their own hands to stop u so that right there is a no to me. with me and my husband nothing happend like that. well one thing and i stepped back and gave him space and waited to see what would happen. and for waiting i got my husband back took a year but hey didnt have to cheat or lose any of my morals. i say leave her alone. and get a single nonpg women. well no u might get her pg all u men every think about is who can i have sex with and then leave and go on to your next one. u make me sick.

I want to "go on a few dates" with a woman I met tonight. She is in a relationship. I don't know how serious/how long. I want to let her know I would like to go on a date with her while still respecting that she is in a relationship. I don't know how to do this. I don't want to wait very long to date her.

I have felt that I want to be single my whole life (because I do not want to spend the time in a relationship). I am very picky with compatibility...

I can tell a person through their eyes and behavior.

Tonight I met a woman (my age is 25, she's probably 22 or so). There was little verbal communication. I was able to watch her nonverbal communication while she played on stage in a band (one of my friends invited me to come watch - a friend I met once before, and kept in touch with). I was watching everyones' nonverbal communication, and kind of getting a sense of what they are like.

The band is sort of an emo band, but this woman played her parts seriously. The lead singers' lyrics are very strange, but pretty funny at times. Her boyfriend plays the bass guitar.

From what I picked up her boyfriend is pretty happy go lucky. I don't think he has much drive though.

The one communication we had was when I left (well, our eyes did meet a few times while she was on stage, but I didn't stare because I knew she was in a relationship). The real communication happened when I said goodbye to everyone. As I was leaving I told her (very honestly) that I loved the french horn (one of the instruments she played, which sounded beautiful).

When I said this, her eyes lit up and she said, "Really?" It shocked me because it is the kind of look that is sincere. I replied automatically "yes."

I started to walk away, came back and said that my cousin teaches french horn, and that I really did enjoy her playing. We made that same eye contact.

This eye contact is something I have never seen... It was amazing.

I may be dreaming, or whatever... but life is short. So my question being, I would like to contact her and ask her to go on a date with me. I need to let her know that I realize she's in a relationship, but I want to go on a few dates with her.

I am not ready to be in a relationship, but this kind of eye contact just blew me away. It was sweet, sincere, honest... very hard to find.

Your thoughts?

From past experience...recipe for disaster

First off, you stated your not ready for a relationship, so why confuse her and possibly break up her already existing relationship, which I may add is with a group member in her band???

Secondly, hellooo, the chick is in a relationship. Lets say you fall for her then what?? What if she refuses to leave her present boyfriend?

My suggestion......keep the nice moment to yourself, indulge in it as a beautiful fantasy and move on to better and more promising things

first, publish this novel

you dont go out with a woman who already in a relationship, you go out with a woman who are single. duh. theres billion of single chicks dude you just gotta keep looking and you need to stop being so damn picky maybe you wouldst feel so alone. now if you try to get with this lady theres a possible chance you could be burned and what goes around comes around. so just remember that. plus your not ready to be in a relationship so what would be the point in asking her out? have you actually thought about this or what? hello anyone home?

I met this amazing women tonight and we spent all night together. She got mad when I tried to follow her in the boys bathroom though. Why would a women act like this?

Thanks

bcoz she was not a woman...he made u foooooooooooool

why exactly was she going into the boys bathroom.....hmm

Did she(he) pee standing up?

well she probly had to pee and didnt want you hangin over her

sure it was a woman?

CH4....10.00pm...

With an increasing amount of women soliciting the services of male escorts...this documentary explores the lives and work of 3 professional gigolos...with very different work ethics....

We had a discussion at work recently about whether we would hire a male prostitute...............I was the only one that said yes! lol

Personally I think prostitution should be legalised, take it off the street.

Yep will probs watch this Kimmy as Afro said there's nothing like seeing how other people live their sordid lives lol

Edit - Pmsl - You and Me both Kimmy !!

Should be interesting......to say the least.....lol

Oh yes...I love to see how other people live their sordid lives....lmao

I doubt it........but I could think of a few on here that could with a gigolo......they may lighten up!

I am meeting an older woman for drinks tonight. Normally I am a beer drinker, but I want this woman to be totally blown away by my drink order. It should be something that shows I'm classy and sophisticated, yet unique and vigorous. Any ideas?

Dirty Martini

Mojito

Harvey Wallbanger

If you like to drink beer then order a microbrew. Order something obscure. You might find a new beer you like and there's nothing wrong with drinking beer. It's become socially acceptable now. Much like wine, different beers are paired with different kinds of food. Find out what if any microbrews the place you're going to has on hand and do a little research. That way, you can impress her with what you know about the beer. For example, where it's brewed, what kind of beer it is and so on. Most of all; just be yourself. Have a great time and good luck.

Personally I think you should just be yourself. However, how about ordering a glass of good cabernet or pinot noir? (NOT merlot!) If she seems intrigued, you could offer to order the bottle and split it with her. That also can give you some conversation about the wine. Good luck!

Oh please, she's probably just happy to be with a younger man. Order a beer, but a good beer. ON TAP. none of that budweiser corona crap.

Let her order for herself, maybe shes a beer girl too

PAY FOR HER. OMG. IF YOU MAKE HER PAY I'LL SOCK YOU IN THE THROAT.

Perfect Manhattan or a Single Malt Scotch neat. Probably Glenlivet seeing as how this is what most bars carry. Very sophisticated, as well as masculine.

order a highball with bourbon and ginger ale. thats a good old fashioned gentleman's drink. either that or a gin and tonic.

Perfect Manhattan !!!

a mojito

thats MOE-HEE-TOE

spiced rum on the rocks

double crown on the rocks

We are both married. Would it be a good idea or no? I want to because I know my wife is getting hers on the side.

Depends on the reasoning why she asked you. Is it just to meet because you talk alot of bisness on the phone. Or do the two of you flirt heavily on the phone? Meet her and see. Doesn't mean anything is going to happen. Dont breathe more into it. You might not like what you see, and vise versa. Guess thats on you and why the two of you want to meet. But doing it because you think your wife is getting some on the side is no reason.

fair is fair in love and war and if you know for a fact she is getting some on the side. go for it. i hope she is hotter than you wife a real treat.just be ready b/c if that is the case eventually one of yous will want a divorce. so just look at the big picture. if its worth it and are you willing to pay the consequence

seems like a fine idea. that's how mine started and i parlayed that into the three of us all getting together. if you aren't gonna do it, give me her number and i'll say i'm you

go for it

wait you know your wife is cheating on you, and you are asking us if it is ok for you to go outwith another women! Come on! That is up to you, but if you are not getting it at home and she is getting hers somewhere else, go for it.

this is your decision not ours....you are the only one to know what you stand to lose or gain by it.but, if your wife is fooling around then, divorce her and you wont have to worry about meeting another woman.......good luck...

bad idea regardless of your wife's infidelity

Just remember two wrongs do not make a right. Look if you do decide to go to happy hour, go just as business people and do not cross the line. You know what I mean. Really if you crossed the line your wife could use that against you when she found out when you two decide to file for a divorce.

i say go to happy hour and hopefully it leads to something else and you bang her like drum. just make sure she's not ugly because if she is.... you just don't want to wake up and think "what kind of beast is this??"

BUT I dont want her to know where I live (easier to get rid of when I have had enough of her and want to move on) I have stayed over at hers a few times. She asked if she could come over mine tonight.....My question is What lame excuses can I come up with that sound realistic. Thank you kindly

Tell her the truth, that you have used her for sex and don't want her to know where you live as you are dumping her the minute some other sex on tap comes along. Why not? She obviously means nothing to you. Men like you give decent men a bad name, shame on you! Oh, and change your screenname, profile, e-mail addy etc......You just never know...lol

Ugh...I hate these kinds of questions because the person (you, in this case) sound like such a user - and I loathe users. But I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and try not to nag you about meeting people on the Internet in the first place....and how rude you've just been to this person. *sigh*...after all, she allowed you into *her* home and played host to you and since you've got what you wanted and used her place to crash and get your kicks, you can't reciprocate.

Just tell her the truth. Whats wrong with that? Tell her that you want to keep everything simple and that you have an issue with security so you never take anyone who isn't family to your house.

I wished I'd never read your question...the more I read it, the more P.O.'ed I get...lol

you mean like a coal mine???

1. Your housemate has chicken pox

2. Your mum said no

3. The plumbing is blocked and you cant get anyone until Monday

4. You have this dog named Molly and she doesnt like women

5. Your wife said no

6. You have a waterbed and it leaks really bad

7. You share a bed with your brother

8. You have forgotten where you live

9. There is a party going on and she's not invited

10. You have been evicted

You must of been seeing her for a while if you have stayed at her place a couple of times, so why can't she stay at yours? I don't think you think much of her so is it best to end it?

If you really wanted to meet a man tonight, what would you do? What would you wear? Where would you go? And what little tricks would you have up your sleeve?

go out to a party,bar,coffee shop,dance club.wear a mini skort and tank top,hipsters pink sash and tank top,daisydukes and a half top.Talk to people fall act drunk or get drunk.Wear pig tails.

thanx,JasonStorm33,wanna be friends e-mail me at gliddenalisha@yahoo.com.au http://answers.yahoo.com/question/accuse_write?qid=20060901195927AAnqIo8&kid=QpYnWzfvWTcAXbNVmm2Z4.fN993V1AcSWOXwcQkbC0dxp2AoeFsl&s=comm&date=2006-09-05+18%3A12%3A17&.crumb=

I would be myself and go to the places I like to go. I would maybe dress a little sexy and no tricks. Just flirting.

I would go to a party. I would dance*dirty*. I would wear my short jeaned skirt and my blue belly dancer shirt.

make some booty calls

high heels and a rope

stay home

make him into my slave and feed him some food

lol

Personals- they are a lot safer than bars, less fattening than beer, cheaper than buying drinks and I don't have to dress up.

I would put on my pj's, climb into bed (alone) and go to dream land, where the men are much nicer, sexier, and treat me like the queen I am.

Yawwwwn. I think I am getting sleepy now.

why do you want to know?

wear a mini-skirt and go walking around, when i see a guy i like get to know him then see wat happens from there

Never been that desperate!

Dude, sounds like you are looking for a one-nighter!

If that's what you are after, go to a local bar and look for a drunk girl wearing too much makeup, who is laughing way too loud at your dumb jokes.

i'd ask my crush if he wants to go somewhere like dinner... i'd where something cute, sexy, but not too revealing.. maybe a cute little black dress with black heeled sandals, or if it's more casual, a flirty skirt with a pretty shirt and a light jacket/blazer over it..... i'd go to a nice restaurant, and then for a walk on the beach... flirt a lot, be sexy as hell, but still cute and sweet, make him laugh, just be me =]

xox- amanda

I am meeting a woman tonight from an internet site. We are both bisexual and looking for fun. I have done this kind of thing before and most often find that they like me but I'm not attracted to them. If there is no attraction on my part, how do I let her down without sounding like a b***h or hurting her feelings. Oh and wish me good luck lol.

Seeming as it's a 1st date I am sure she has no expectations. So just try to have some fun with her and then you will part ways if you don't like the girl

You can try starting a slow conversation like normal but try avoiding the topic on anything about love. When you think it's the right time, then you can tell her slowly on how you feel about this whole situation. Tell her in a polite way. Don't be too harsh. If you think that she might take you as a b****, don't fear that because you've done something you wanted in the right way. Explain to her until she understands. Hope this helps! Good luck!!

WHY DID YOU EVEN BOTHER SETTING UP THE DATE WHEN YOU ARE ALREADY PESSIMISTIC ABOUT MEETING HER?

tell her you got diareahea (sic)

just tell him things aren't working out and give appropiate reasons to make him feel better

Just tell him that he deserves better than you.

for me d answer:

no way u cant belive me

tell dem dat u like em onli as friend!!

Depends on where you are from. Check out craigslist.org for this kind of thing.

Count me in, Im there and feeling really up for some action!!!!!!

I joined a social network (i.e., group of losers) and met a nice woman, and we swapped numbers and spoke once before she left for a long vacation; she is coming back this weekend. At the next meetup I met another woman and swapped numbers, and she and I are meeting tonight. Since it is likely they will both be at future meetups, what should I do?

1. Never go there again and hope they don't talk about me?

2. Tell each about the other and let them fight over me like junkyard dogs over a steak?

3. Something else?

I really want to know what to do.

PS Having women express an interest in you is stressful. What's up with that?

Date and have sex first...with both...

Ask questions later...

Like pork chop, I suggest you go out with both a few times and skip the meetups while you are dating both ladies. Hopefully you should sort it out between them as to which one, if any, that you want to continue a relationship with.

Here is a tip for dating more then one lady at once. I suggest you call them both by the same pet name, like honey, hon or baby. Names like that insure you will never mistakenly call them by the others name, saving you a possibly painful confrontation. Hope I helped.

since they are most likely both easy, low cost hookers just place your BO to the one you lust more or, double the wage and double the pleasure.

omg..date both of them yo. It happens like everyday around the world...

AND then you can date them both til one is better. I hope everyone said this b/c it's the best advice.

Whoa, 2 blow up dolls at once? Every geeks dream of a lifetime! Go for it dude.

Alternate days between them if they wont date you at once.

3. something else:

They are probably seeing other people there too, so don't worry about it, just go on and see them both until you decide which one you like the best. Nothing wrong with that.

as long as ur not officially dating, u can flirt away as much as u want, if they dont like it, then they'll make a move into dating u exclusively ♥

geek huh?

well what would master chief do?

I'm going to need some names before I can help you. Anyone I know?

I would not voluntarily offer up any information. If contestant #2 that you're going out with tonight asks if you've spoke with or been on a date with anyone else, then of course you can tell her about contestant #1.

Since you're in a "social network" (I don't know if that's some kind of code for prostitution ring or swingers club), the whole point is to meet different people and have a good time, so you don't have to feel awkward when youre at the events since everyone is their for the same purpose.

I say keep it casual, and like ompelle said, you are truly very un-douchelike, and if you just be your wonderful self, chances are you'll meet someone who you want to sex up.

Where can I find a local group of losers to join? I could use some company.

Have fun tonight, and you have to keep us filled in on all the details!

Well, that's a predicament!

There is nothing wrong with the fact that you swapped numbers with both of them, seeing as you aren't really committed to either one of them so far. It probably will still piss them both off when they realise that you swapped numbers with the other one as well, but I'm pretty sure that would piss most women off anyway.

Do you like one of them more than the other? And seriously, don't go by looks because personality is completely what matters in the long run. (So long as you're still attracted to them both!) But if you really have no preference, things will sort themselves out I'm sure.

Maybe one of them will be super mad that you swapped numbers with the other woman, and then will not want anything to do with you anymore. Voila. Problem solved. I know that's a tough way to go, because if you're like me, you hate having anyone hold anything against you, but that's an extreme situation anyways. Just do what feels right, and congratulation on finding a little bit of romance... it can be tough!

See if they are down for a threesome first, if so...go with it..

if not..

Go out with both on separate dates, there is no need to tell them of each other off the bat.

they went to the same place to meet guys, chances are good you may not be their only date that came of it.

play it out, see who really does it for you and come back and ask for advice on that....

We'll be here for you, to help you screw things up more than you ever could on your own! XOXO

I like option #2, but considering you've only exchanged numbers with one lady and had a single date with the other, they may not be so inclined to duke it out over you this early on. :)

You shouldn't stress.. the purpose of the losers group (i.e., social network) is to meet people, that's what you are doing. You're being social, that's why you're there. You do not need to explain yourself to either of them at this point.. have fun, get to know them and if you start to take a shine to one over the other, just do the right thing at that time.

Good luck on your date, stud!

Hopefully you didn't suggest to either one of them that they were the only candidate... and also, hopefully, you didn't use the word "candidate", but I think you know what I mean. Is there some kind of unwritten rule that you can or should only date one other member of the group? I doubt it... that would sort of go against the term "social network" wouldn't it. Are you worried about what they'll think of you? I don't actually know you, but you seem like a genuinely nice guy and very un-douchebag like... if they don't get that you aren't using them then maybe they aren't the one anyway. There's nothing wrong with dating more than one lovely lady.

In other words, tell them. If they find out later they'll just be pissed, and then you won't get laid. Sold.

now she is a bit larger than what i like, but what are the odds of hooking up later? and how can i suggest we go back to her house afterwards

You are a pig.

The odds are VERY SLIM. She's an older woman, which means she's smarter and more experienced than you - she knows when a guy is just trying to get in her pants.

Odds of hooking up?? 99% She is in her prime and so are you, However odds of you being any good and getting anymore?? From the way you talk 0.

Dude, if a 35 year old woman is meeting a 21 year old drinks...think about it. She's after the same thing you are.

Hee hee, you are with a cougar. Don't worry about that, she will make it easy for you.

Your an ***

milf chaser! ewwww XD

No man.

Just... no.

nothing will happen because Im so damn picky and "old school"...still mr chivalry...but, honestly girls, are we half as hot as you all? Blows my mind

All I can say is, they are blessed.

born a godess....

always a godess...

dream on babe

Haha, I can only hope people think that about me when they see me. I think it takes a lot of practice for girls to get 'stupid hot'. Most of us girls played with make up and played dress ups and read fashion magazines growing up... I guess a lot of girls just eventually figured out how to work what they've got. Something had to stick right?

THATS WHY WE ARE THE WOMAN BECAUSE WOMAN ARE SUPPOSE TO BUT HOT WELL DRESEES AND CLEAN SO THATS WHAT YOU GUYS LOVE THATS WHAT WE SHALL DO

Because we take time getting ready.

& we keep healthy unlike some men.

maybe cupid just happen to pass by at that time.

Some women are hot like that cause they get it. They know there's a formula to looking sexy, and they follow it to a tee, along with good genetics.

As far as nothing happening, you CAN have her, dude! You just can't go giving her what you want. Women want attention and commitment, so if you give her what she wants before getting what you want (sex and fun) you'll never get any. It'd be like a girl you just met meeting you and taking you to the nearest bathroom for a quick go-round, and right afterwards asking you to be her boyfriend. It just wouldn't work cause you've already classified her as "non-girlfriend material."

With women, you have to hold out. Women don't put out at the beginning of a date, so you shouldn't give her everything she wants from the get-go either.

And the problem with a scene like a bar, is the smart guys like you and me hold out by not drolling over the women, but the other 99% give these girls what they want (to feel wanted). To put it in perspective, if you went into a place, and most every woman there offered herself to you, you really wouldn't care too much about the ones who didn't (unless she was REALLY unique, which is difficult to be). Its about as hard for a guy to pick up a girl at a club, as it would be for a girl to find true love in a strip club. Its just not on most of their minds...

I know this is abstract, but if you just listen, I promise the world will make more sense. You can be nice like you are, just don't satisfy her every desire before she gives something in return (unless you like being "just a friend").

Well you seem to be undervaluying yourself dude. Get a life...

IT IS AMAZING HOW LADIES LOOK TODAY, MAKES ME WANT TO BE A LITTLE YOUNGER.

Gee thanks! But guys are hot too! Just be yourself and have fun. Don't try so hard to be cool and all. Women like genuine guys, not ones who flash their bling and keep talking about their cars and whatnot.

Being "old school" has it's own charm. If the Now is all the "pimpz' and 'hoz' out there, a girl still wants to get treated with respect! Therefore 'old school' is hot for me!

Don't worry, and don't underestimate yourself. :-D

be yourself

Thanks for choosing my answer :)

and for the record there is some one for everybody :) http://answers.yahoo.com/question/accuse_write?qid=20080418074022AAEsefs&kid=Rcd8WmfpU2S3eiLr0_ItKwdH9Pw.1x.V5Z8D3iXPPLNVCd4Z5AhT&s=comm&date=2008-04-21+10%3A59%3A00&.crumb=

Be yourself. Don't try too hard or appear desperate.

Look at it as an opportunity to make new friends instead of hooking up. If it eventually turns into more fine if not you have new friends.

I like to dance. There are places around here to go dancing. The regulars dance together as friends and when there is no ''fresh meat'' in the building we have each other to have fun with. You can't have too many friends.

Go to a place where there will be women. Then go around ad introduce yourself to them one by one. Eventually one will talk to you - there, you've met a woman!

Make all your jokes really cheesy, they'll be so cheesy that it'll be funny.

Just Go Out With The Honest Intention of Just Having Fun !!!

The Rest - Takes Care of Itself !

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Don't eat any beans today!

Ask to see the Apples

SteveC

Show her your avatar... she'll fall on her knees and beg you to take her!

Wear some clothes.

wear a water spitting flower and squirt her

bathe and brush your teeth.. and do something with that sweet a*s mullet..

walk around with your dingy hangin out the front of your pants....LOL

show her your stiffy

make sure u smell good and look good...and try to smile and give eye contact

We both are in crappy marriages where our spouses contribute little if anything to the marraige, both financialy and emotionaly. For the first time in a long time, I enjoyed the conversation and company of a woman. Even though she is an amazing woman with many of the caracturistics I am attracted to, should I see her again and let fate have its way or stay in my marriage

I truely believe that you should follow your heart,why should either of you spend the rest of your lives unhappy,married or not,if it doesnt work it doesnt work,you can wait for ever and you cannot force something to change that probably never will.I kinda live by my own rule,once I can say that I gave it my all,then I move on,I wish you all the best in what ever you decide to do,I think you are an amazing man

If you want to pursue other relationships, get out of the one you're in first. Even if you don't think so, you are being unfaithful to your wife even though it's been innocent. You are still cheating.

well i wouldnt be the one making her go through a divorce

definitely not... thts a definite recipe for disaster.

u should talk to ur wife, try and fix things DON"T CHEAT

Lonely people are vulnerable to play dangerous games. Often time it is thought of being an antidote for healing their broken hearts but in the end it turned out to be a poison that can kill both of them. To sum it up, short time pleasures is equal to long time

suffering and pain.

no

no.

I don't think you should leave your wife for another woman. I think it's best that if things aren't working out, then decide to end it based on that alone. Then if things don't work out with your female friend, you aren't knocking on your wife's door because you don't want to be alone. So decide on how you want to pursue your marriage, without having the influence of this female friend getting in the way. THEN, if you decide that you don't want to be in your marriage and can handle being alone, then leave and see how things work out with your friend.

No you should honor your committment to your marital partners. No good comes of this, believe that. Peace.

no leave the lady alone she is nothing but trouble, find someone who is not married

1. Use spellcheck. (It's spelled "characteristics")

2. Perhaps you both could talk your spouses into swinging/partner swapping.

3. It'd probably be best to divorce if you are both stuck in such sucky marriages (or at least that's your excuse...)

4. I'm engaged and have no intention of leaving, but I do have some guy-friends. There's no rule barring you from a platonic friendship if you're married... just make sure it stays that way. ;)

Hell no. Marriage is a lifetime commitment and you should do your best to fix your own.

Well, let me tell you what little life has tought me... Be happy!! Be happy to the fullest cuz u never know when it could all end.

Should you see her again... I should say no; but I will say YES and only because you cannot live unhappy for the rest of your life.

SEARCH FOR HAPPINESS!! And never stop untill you get it!

How do you like your wife seeing another man tonight? If you think that is fine with you.......you just got the answer for the next move.

As long I am married, I would not see another girl...........one should be always faithful, that is what marriage all about.

No - my ex husband had an affair with another woman and we are now divorced. Deal with your marriage first. If you try and work things out with your wife and you both decide to end the relationship - you will be able to leave with your dignity in tact. Cheating solves nothing and causes too much pain. My ex and I may have been able to work things out or we could have both agreed it was for the best. Now I look at him and see a stranger - the man I knew is dead. If you ever loved your wife - do not do this to her. End it properly then see the other woman. Oh and you might want to tell her the same thing.

If you're not happy in your marriage you need to take care of that situation before you start a new relationship. I understand how great it can feel to be attracted to someone who is so completely different than your spouse, but trust me, no good can come from having someone on the side.

If your marriage is that bad that you're out meeting other people, you really need to revisit why you're still married in the first place.

NO>>> if she likes you that much her husband should know dont you think

well first of all do u have the same feeling and second is she happy with who shes with or not and third ru happy i say let it take its pace see her as friends and let love or friendship lead the way it has always worked for me

First things first,both of you need to end your current relationships before continuing

If u are in a crappy marriage, what makes u think the solution is outside of it? This should've told u that it is time to work on it. Why are u taking the easy way out? The fact that you're enjoying communicating with another woman tells me you're lacking the same connection with your wife. So...what's stopping u from getting that back? I really don't understand people of your mentality when the solutions are right there inside their own marriage. What ever happened to upholding your vows and trying to make it work?

Obviously, this is all going to be up to u as this is your life. Just consider that the grass is not always greener on the other side. It just seems that way because you're forgetting to mow your own. Consider that u might end up having this same issues with this other woman down the road, should u decide to hook up with her.

So my suggestion is: Choose wisely because u will be the one who's going to live with the consequences later on.

you better stay away from the potential mess.

Get out of your marriages first. Then if something develops, you are both free to act on it.

sure why not. pal by the way let your wife sleep with her hubby ok and see how you feel what goes around comes back to bite you this is fact . ?

It sounds like you have no idea what a marriage was in the beginning. Ok look at it this way you both lose your marriage over this stupid stuff and then you get together don't you think there will be problems there to. Its just common sense.If you can't make your marriage work and your already doing this to your other half what makes you think you could make anything else.

Sure...go ahead and see her again...JUST AS SOON AS YOU ARE BOTH DIVORCED AND LIVING SINGLE!

Like a lot of responses state, consider all the pros and cons.....mainly who else will be hurt by the decision that you make (kids?) they didn't ask for this! No kids, then re-look at your marriage and decide for once and all, is it salvageable, do I still love her? Only you know the answer...all we can do from the outside is to cheer you onto a new relationship or encourage you to right your marriage vows.

Good luck on your journey.

NO! Didn't you watch dr. phil? You need to respect the union of marriage, yours and hers. I think its great that you feel a connection to another woman, but try to fix or get out of what you're dealing with now and THEN seek out someone else. On the other hand, you only live once, and what if this is the one that would make you really happy. No. I still say, fix it or get out of it. Often, when you start something in the middle of something else, it doesn't work anyway. There's too much unfinished business and resentments arise. Good luck

Resolve the problems in your mariage first. No matter how amazing she is, you are both married and until you are single it is wrong.

If you think this is a romantic interlude, NO! If you plain and simply enjoy her company, regardless of whomever may be present (including your wife or her husband) sure I see no harm. It seems like you already have more of a no-no interest so I'd have to say to avoid any situation that you'd have to question.

I can never understand why people stay in unhappy marriages. If you want to see her get a divorce first.

I learned some thing very useful tonight. I went to Wall Mart at about 2:00 in the moringin. There was not a whole lot of customers in there. There were, however, a lot of employees. They all looked a little bored. I went to the sporting goods section and I saw this woman who was not very good looking, however, she was very nice and talkative. She just came over to me and started talking to me for some reason. She continued working and talking my ear off at the same time. I wanted to leave, but she was talking so much that I couldn't. Eventualy, I gave her my phone number because I noticed she did not have a ring.

Then I walked around the rest of the store and saw a bunch of other female employees talking to the other customers and the male employees. I saw some cute ones to and I just thought, "Why could that other girl I just met have been her? Any way, I know where and when I will be going to meet girls now! Wall Mart after Midnite.

Where else should I try? When should I go there?

lmao i do this at the mall with girls at the counter

but it only lasts a few minutes cuz there's other customers to attend to

but you just gave me a great idea

ima try it...as long as the hoes aren't ugly =]

Hang around in Ladies toilets, many women go there.

you can go to college & meet in college timings

I am a married woman who is going to meet another married woman tonight for the first time. I was referred to her by a doctor/nurse to help her through the tough times that she is going through. I have donated my kidney to my daughter last year, and she will be doing it for hers this year, and she is really scared. What do I say? Do I be honest, or do I sugarcoat it? I'm also afraid that there will be hardly any conversation and it will be boring. I know really nothing about her.

Hello, Becky, from England. What a brave and poignant question!

I can really appreciate your concern, but (and I am sure you know what I am going to say here) be honest, and don't sugarcoat anything. Look at it this way: she will be just as nervous as you - honestly! When you meet her, smile, give her a nice hug - that will break the ice quickly, trust me.

I think you are a brave lady: you have my respect. I wish you well.

Just be there for her if she has any questions, calm her fears, and have a cup of coffee and talk about things you have in common.

Share you experiance of sharing your kindney and try to comfort her.

Buy her a drink to break the ice and take it from there. There is no script for this. Good luck.

She referred to you as a doctor/nurse so that means she trust you and your experience. Talk about the subject and use humour to bridge in the silence gaps. Be completely honest i say and ask questions like what she like to you and response back on like i know what you mean. Just be honest, take a interest in her and be happy.

Talk things over with her, make her feel like your really really glad to be talking to her about it, tell her it's nothing to worry about, and that if she's scared, think of things to get over her fears. Hope this helps. GOOD LUCK!

=] smile

Poll: Poor judgement or lapse in judgement?

Oh Poor baby.

The ones worth having are the ones worth fighting for......

Wonder thinks you must have been sitting down at the time, because if she had taken one glance at Cowbell's asss-ets, she would have surely thrown you onto the pool table a Calhoun's Bar and Grill Pub Boobies Bar, and done you right there.

* experience *

Hell yes, I would! Do you know if she's looking for work? I'd like to hire her as a nanny. Not for Caleb, but for me. As you know, I'm not very smart and I'm a terrible judge of character (i.e. Nasty).

Okay, So your picture is a picture of your ***. Yes, I can believe that she rejected you. Great judgment.

I don't believe it!

I would never do that to you

answer to poll:

poor judgement

you should have put an "OTHER" up lol

she wasn't woman enough for you sweetie, that's why

cause no sane woman would pass on an @$$ like yours. lol

She is definitely a lesbian then

Maybe she was gay?

you still have me wrapped around your little finger, if that makes you feel any better...

Poor judgement.

you are the biggest liar! there is no way that happened in real life...

show her the pics you sent to me, she'll change her tune ;)

piss poor judgement

WHAT?!?

did you turn around for her?

was she concious?

Hi no silly girl Lol Hugs

Again?

Yeah it's the Wranglers! hahaha!.....Lapse!

OMG! Where is SHE! Let me at her, crazy bit**!

Lapse, who wouldn't want you?

Maybe it was good judgement.

How do you think the gals feel on these reality shows?

.. wonder what's wrong with that woman ... lapse in judgement probably ...

lol i said sorry damm give me few more drinks then ask again yr gettin purty by minute lol

Sorry, Dude...

I got her first...

(Just in case you were wondering why...I'm a Superstud, you know...Just ask Joey...on second thought...don't ask Joey.)

awh *hugs* maybe u shud have worn mascara an admited that u hide how sensitive u are an show her ur purity ring ♥ i dunt get gurls

poor judgement of words.

Were you sitting down?? She didnt see your butt, did she? You DID try to show her your butt right?

maybe it's the wranglers. just a thought

Next time, try wearing men's clothing, dear.

She must be BLIND

what the hell was wrong with her???

poor judgment

yes i would. poor

use the Tazer!

Yes, I can believe that...good girl!

(NO) lapse in judgement.

How dare her!! Come to momma baby!

lmao

she was a tranny, i know because it was me in disguise. shhh.....

Does this excite some of you. Have any of you allowed your wife to play like this? Or have any of you wives hubby's allowed you to play like this.

I am happy for my wife to explore her sexuality with other women. I hope she gets lucky tonight.

PS: she will never leave me over this, she is just craving sex with a woman so I think as a husband I should allow her to.

Have any of you been down this road and was it as exciting as I think it is?

ps: she will send me a kissing pic tonight to my cell phone.

Not very exciting for you...

yeah, it cool. While she is gone on a date, you go hook up with a girl. She cant get mad because she is doing the same thing.

well I hope your marriage was nice

exciting for her iguess..maybe u should get ur own peice of action..lol

Obey her? Are you crazy? I think this is gonna cause problems...it's one thing to talk about it, another to actually go out and do it. It doesn't matter who she's with, it's still cheating.

Lucky you! A picture...WOW!

Put some butter behind your ears so it will be easier to pull your head out of your ***!

"obey" - "allow" - you're NOT for real, right???????

Oh yeah this sounds like a lasting marriage. What about you? You going to get to play around with other women too? I just see a big old red flag right in your face. Can't you see it?

You hope she gets lucky! That's one of the lamest things I've heard from someone with a wife. I think as a husband you should explore other alternatives TOGETHER. All your doing is encouraging her to go out and screw any one she wants, then she comes home to you and gives you the creep'in crud .This is your wife! What about the next time she wants to get lucky without you, it might be for the rest of your single life. If my wife or wanted to do this I would send her packing.

all you get is a kissing pic? yeah, that sounds fair

I keep getting these pop-ups and generally they ask me if I'd like to meet a lady tonight? Various pictures pop up of these ladies and out of 10 at least 2 are from Billericay!! I've never heard of the place! Is it a town full of desperate women or what??!!

did you find the man that crashed into your car mate? I noticed your question on tryin to find him. There is a way to get his address if youve got his no plate and the car is registered to him - go onto e bay or into a shop and buy a scanner then phone the police annon and tell them that that car is acting suspiciously somewhere, they will then come back with the guys address and you'll be listening. p.s you'll need to tune the scanner in to your local cop shops frequency, just have a little scan around and you will prob hear one station talking about stuff in your area. DONT MESS WITH A MANS WHEELS. thats what i always say

I think i should move there.

Would you believe it,Billericay is a small village in essex england Don't think these ladies are toutin.Are you sure you've spelled it right