I joined a social network (i.e., group of losers) and met a nice woman, and we swapped numbers and spoke once before she left for a long vacation; she is coming back this weekend. At the next meetup I met another woman and swapped numbers, and she and I are meeting tonight. Since it is likely they will both be at future meetups, what should I do?
1. Never go there again and hope they don't talk about me?
2. Tell each about the other and let them fight over me like junkyard dogs over a steak?
3. Something else?
I really want to know what to do.
PS Having women express an interest in you is stressful. What's up with that?
Date and have sex first...with both...
Ask questions later...
Like pork chop, I suggest you go out with both a few times and skip the meetups while you are dating both ladies. Hopefully you should sort it out between them as to which one, if any, that you want to continue a relationship with.
Here is a tip for dating more then one lady at once. I suggest you call them both by the same pet name, like honey, hon or baby. Names like that insure you will never mistakenly call them by the others name, saving you a possibly painful confrontation. Hope I helped.
since they are most likely both easy, low cost hookers just place your BO to the one you lust more or, double the wage and double the pleasure.
omg..date both of them yo. It happens like everyday around the world...
AND then you can date them both til one is better. I hope everyone said this b/c it's the best advice.
Whoa, 2 blow up dolls at once? Every geeks dream of a lifetime! Go for it dude.
Alternate days between them if they wont date you at once.
3. something else:
They are probably seeing other people there too, so don't worry about it, just go on and see them both until you decide which one you like the best. Nothing wrong with that.
as long as ur not officially dating, u can flirt away as much as u want, if they dont like it, then they'll make a move into dating u exclusively ♥
geek huh?
well what would master chief do?
I'm going to need some names before I can help you. Anyone I know?
I would not voluntarily offer up any information. If contestant #2 that you're going out with tonight asks if you've spoke with or been on a date with anyone else, then of course you can tell her about contestant #1.
Since you're in a "social network" (I don't know if that's some kind of code for prostitution ring or swingers club), the whole point is to meet different people and have a good time, so you don't have to feel awkward when youre at the events since everyone is their for the same purpose.
I say keep it casual, and like ompelle said, you are truly very un-douchelike, and if you just be your wonderful self, chances are you'll meet someone who you want to sex up.
Where can I find a local group of losers to join? I could use some company.
Have fun tonight, and you have to keep us filled in on all the details!
Well, that's a predicament!
There is nothing wrong with the fact that you swapped numbers with both of them, seeing as you aren't really committed to either one of them so far. It probably will still piss them both off when they realise that you swapped numbers with the other one as well, but I'm pretty sure that would piss most women off anyway.
Do you like one of them more than the other? And seriously, don't go by looks because personality is completely what matters in the long run. (So long as you're still attracted to them both!) But if you really have no preference, things will sort themselves out I'm sure.
Maybe one of them will be super mad that you swapped numbers with the other woman, and then will not want anything to do with you anymore. Voila. Problem solved. I know that's a tough way to go, because if you're like me, you hate having anyone hold anything against you, but that's an extreme situation anyways. Just do what feels right, and congratulation on finding a little bit of romance... it can be tough!
See if they are down for a threesome first, if so...go with it..
if not..
Go out with both on separate dates, there is no need to tell them of each other off the bat.
they went to the same place to meet guys, chances are good you may not be their only date that came of it.
play it out, see who really does it for you and come back and ask for advice on that....
We'll be here for you, to help you screw things up more than you ever could on your own! XOXO
I like option #2, but considering you've only exchanged numbers with one lady and had a single date with the other, they may not be so inclined to duke it out over you this early on. :)
You shouldn't stress.. the purpose of the losers group (i.e., social network) is to meet people, that's what you are doing. You're being social, that's why you're there. You do not need to explain yourself to either of them at this point.. have fun, get to know them and if you start to take a shine to one over the other, just do the right thing at that time.
Good luck on your date, stud!
Hopefully you didn't suggest to either one of them that they were the only candidate... and also, hopefully, you didn't use the word "candidate", but I think you know what I mean. Is there some kind of unwritten rule that you can or should only date one other member of the group? I doubt it... that would sort of go against the term "social network" wouldn't it. Are you worried about what they'll think of you? I don't actually know you, but you seem like a genuinely nice guy and very un-douchebag like... if they don't get that you aren't using them then maybe they aren't the one anyway. There's nothing wrong with dating more than one lovely lady.
In other words, tell them. If they find out later they'll just be pissed, and then you won't get laid. Sold.
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