We both are in crappy marriages where our spouses contribute little if anything to the marraige, both financialy and emotionaly. For the first time in a long time, I enjoyed the conversation and company of a woman. Even though she is an amazing woman with many of the caracturistics I am attracted to, should I see her again and let fate have its way or stay in my marriage
I truely believe that you should follow your heart,why should either of you spend the rest of your lives unhappy,married or not,if it doesnt work it doesnt work,you can wait for ever and you cannot force something to change that probably never will.I kinda live by my own rule,once I can say that I gave it my all,then I move on,I wish you all the best in what ever you decide to do,I think you are an amazing man
If you want to pursue other relationships, get out of the one you're in first. Even if you don't think so, you are being unfaithful to your wife even though it's been innocent. You are still cheating.
well i wouldnt be the one making her go through a divorce
definitely not... thts a definite recipe for disaster.
u should talk to ur wife, try and fix things DON"T CHEAT
Lonely people are vulnerable to play dangerous games. Often time it is thought of being an antidote for healing their broken hearts but in the end it turned out to be a poison that can kill both of them. To sum it up, short time pleasures is equal to long time
suffering and pain.
no
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I don't think you should leave your wife for another woman. I think it's best that if things aren't working out, then decide to end it based on that alone. Then if things don't work out with your female friend, you aren't knocking on your wife's door because you don't want to be alone. So decide on how you want to pursue your marriage, without having the influence of this female friend getting in the way. THEN, if you decide that you don't want to be in your marriage and can handle being alone, then leave and see how things work out with your friend.
No you should honor your committment to your marital partners. No good comes of this, believe that. Peace.
no leave the lady alone she is nothing but trouble, find someone who is not married
1. Use spellcheck. (It's spelled "characteristics")
2. Perhaps you both could talk your spouses into swinging/partner swapping.
3. It'd probably be best to divorce if you are both stuck in such sucky marriages (or at least that's your excuse...)
4. I'm engaged and have no intention of leaving, but I do have some guy-friends. There's no rule barring you from a platonic friendship if you're married... just make sure it stays that way. ;)
Hell no. Marriage is a lifetime commitment and you should do your best to fix your own.
Well, let me tell you what little life has tought me... Be happy!! Be happy to the fullest cuz u never know when it could all end.
Should you see her again... I should say no; but I will say YES and only because you cannot live unhappy for the rest of your life.
SEARCH FOR HAPPINESS!! And never stop untill you get it!
How do you like your wife seeing another man tonight? If you think that is fine with you.......you just got the answer for the next move.
As long I am married, I would not see another girl...........one should be always faithful, that is what marriage all about.
No - my ex husband had an affair with another woman and we are now divorced. Deal with your marriage first. If you try and work things out with your wife and you both decide to end the relationship - you will be able to leave with your dignity in tact. Cheating solves nothing and causes too much pain. My ex and I may have been able to work things out or we could have both agreed it was for the best. Now I look at him and see a stranger - the man I knew is dead. If you ever loved your wife - do not do this to her. End it properly then see the other woman. Oh and you might want to tell her the same thing.
If you're not happy in your marriage you need to take care of that situation before you start a new relationship. I understand how great it can feel to be attracted to someone who is so completely different than your spouse, but trust me, no good can come from having someone on the side.
If your marriage is that bad that you're out meeting other people, you really need to revisit why you're still married in the first place.
NO>>> if she likes you that much her husband should know dont you think
well first of all do u have the same feeling and second is she happy with who shes with or not and third ru happy i say let it take its pace see her as friends and let love or friendship lead the way it has always worked for me
First things first,both of you need to end your current relationships before continuing
If u are in a crappy marriage, what makes u think the solution is outside of it? This should've told u that it is time to work on it. Why are u taking the easy way out? The fact that you're enjoying communicating with another woman tells me you're lacking the same connection with your wife. So...what's stopping u from getting that back? I really don't understand people of your mentality when the solutions are right there inside their own marriage. What ever happened to upholding your vows and trying to make it work?
Obviously, this is all going to be up to u as this is your life. Just consider that the grass is not always greener on the other side. It just seems that way because you're forgetting to mow your own. Consider that u might end up having this same issues with this other woman down the road, should u decide to hook up with her.
So my suggestion is: Choose wisely because u will be the one who's going to live with the consequences later on.
you better stay away from the potential mess.
Get out of your marriages first. Then if something develops, you are both free to act on it.
sure why not. pal by the way let your wife sleep with her hubby ok and see how you feel what goes around comes back to bite you this is fact . ?
It sounds like you have no idea what a marriage was in the beginning. Ok look at it this way you both lose your marriage over this stupid stuff and then you get together don't you think there will be problems there to. Its just common sense.If you can't make your marriage work and your already doing this to your other half what makes you think you could make anything else.
Sure...go ahead and see her again...JUST AS SOON AS YOU ARE BOTH DIVORCED AND LIVING SINGLE!
Like a lot of responses state, consider all the pros and cons.....mainly who else will be hurt by the decision that you make (kids?) they didn't ask for this! No kids, then re-look at your marriage and decide for once and all, is it salvageable, do I still love her? Only you know the answer...all we can do from the outside is to cheer you onto a new relationship or encourage you to right your marriage vows.
Good luck on your journey.
NO! Didn't you watch dr. phil? You need to respect the union of marriage, yours and hers. I think its great that you feel a connection to another woman, but try to fix or get out of what you're dealing with now and THEN seek out someone else. On the other hand, you only live once, and what if this is the one that would make you really happy. No. I still say, fix it or get out of it. Often, when you start something in the middle of something else, it doesn't work anyway. There's too much unfinished business and resentments arise. Good luck
Resolve the problems in your mariage first. No matter how amazing she is, you are both married and until you are single it is wrong.
If you think this is a romantic interlude, NO! If you plain and simply enjoy her company, regardless of whomever may be present (including your wife or her husband) sure I see no harm. It seems like you already have more of a no-no interest so I'd have to say to avoid any situation that you'd have to question.
I can never understand why people stay in unhappy marriages. If you want to see her get a divorce first.
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