My wife told me she gave a guy a bj in Vegas last year when she was on an all girls weekend. She said it is not cheating. So I told her I was going out tonight to meet a woman that will give me a bj so that should be ok, right honey?
What a crock of sht, women want it all but get upset when you want some. She got mad at me for saying that.
I told her that I was serious and I am serious. I am going out tonight and will get myself a bj and I will tell her all about it.
Fair is fair right?
Any form of inappropriate contact is cheating. How you two act towards each other is your business.
Two wrongs don't make a right, or make you even. Kick her to the curb, get a divorce, then you can do whomever however whenever. Take the higher road. She was wrong.
if anyone does anything sexually to another person other than the person they are with , is cheating unless it is agreed upon by the two individuals.
Normally I would say two wrong don't make a right but in this case.... I think I'm on the fence and don't blame you for doing what you are going to do. If she said something like "you're right and I'm sorry", then I'd say don't do it but when she tells you that it's not cheating then I'd say she's giving you permission.
lucky dude...you have the door wide open.. fly away man and don't look back
Do one better. Get her to admit it again and make sure you have it on tape or something. Then get a lawyer.
Of course its cheating and she knows it as you do. And the women having a double standard thing. Well, that should not be a suprise at all, right? Isnt that how they always are? You were right in what you told her. So she is upset. Big deal. Who cares. Most people hate the truth, yet that should not prevent it from being said.
Just another example of why a man should always look at a woman as just what they are, something for us to have sex with. Thats it. They continually prove that they are for the most part useless and unworthy of trust or respect. I would suggest that you visit a site. www.nomarriage.com
There is a saying which I like. If it wasnt for a vagina, women would pull plows. The longer you live, the more true that saying will prove to be.
right..........
get rid of her she's nasty, two wrongs don't make a right but you have every right on this one she said it's not cheating.
fair is fair but u are both cheating
Dump the *****...
It's called oral SEX! It Is cheating!
Two wrongs do NOT make a right. Go ahead, but you'll get back whatever energy you put out. It'll probably become an all out war back and forth to see who can get away with the most. YES! Bj's are cheating. If you wouldn't do that with your spouse standing right there watching, then what you're doing is WRONG. Wake up, and smell the coffee, peeps.
Sometimes fighting fire with fire can do more damage than good. What your wife did was wrong. You doing it does not change what happened. You feel betrayed and want revenge. What were the circumstances was she drunk? Regardless I feel a bj is a form of cheating. But it was one time. It was not sex and its not an ongoing thing. Make her feel remorseful for what she did and then forgive her and move on without hurting each other any further.
Two wrongs does not make a right.
Giving someone a bj is definiately cheating.
Why would she put her mouth on someone she doesn't even know......... then she kisses you.............just nasty.
Divorce her or forgive her. Also, the girls she went out of town with really isn't her friends at all.
Wow, she told you what she did, then said she doesn't consider it cheating. Well I think she's wrong for what she did & yes it is cheating. As for you, if that is how you feel why come here & ask, two wrongs don't make it right.
This is a question for Hillary Clinton. Right after the question about fixing health care.
Bill and Hillary don't seem to think so.
She cheated on you...
Divorce her..
bj's are cheating and if its ok for her to give another man one then its ok for another woman to give you one because its not cheating right?!?! best of luck with your relationship.
right....bj's are def cheating...she was wrong....i see where you are coming from....just try to remember 2 wrongs dont make a right....and you;ll have something to hang over her head for ever...lol
Hey if you want to end the marriage based on cheating I wouldn't blame you. To go out to get even is stupid. She still sucked someone off. I don't know why but married women who want to cheat but thinks its bad give head. Thats what my 360 blog is about today. I think its wrong but I am single and I don't often turn away a hot set of lips.
i think she listens to Bill Clinton too much lol, she was trying it on with you, it doesn't even sound like she's sorry. I'd get rid of her if she seriously cant see that's wrong, no one is that thick. good luck and you deserve better. a BJ to me is more personal than sex it's self.
this sort of thing could only happen to a american !!
why would you even ask? She sucked another dudes d***! She actually had it in her mouth. really that's worse than you getting one because you aren't touching another woman's genitalia. You need to go out and eat another girl out and see how she feels. You should leave her that is just wrong!
DAM SKIPPY! it's cheating and I guess she will feel what it's like when your out tonight hey? Well just know this that your relationship won't last I mean she cheated on you and now your going to do it and I'm not saying that you shouldn't because you have that right but I just couldn't be with someone that was a cheater because then how can you ever trust that person. I know you must have been faithful to her during your relationship it's too bad that she did such a thing because now things are just going to go down hill with your relationship after tonight.
Well enjoy your night and I do hope you all the best, take care.
OK, before you go and drop trou to get that hummer, think about it. Are you going to get to that same level as your wife? Yeah, her giving a hummer to some random guy in Vegas is enough to make you want to get even but where does it stop? Get an intermediary in there and work this out. If you can't you've got her infidelity and only hers to bring up in the divorce proceedings.
You are right, it is cheating.
You are being childish though. If that's the way you handle things in your relationship you might as well just file for divorce now and get it over with. You aren't respecting marriage at all. Yes, she cheated adn she must take responsibility for what she did but if you go off and do this thing then you are no better, in fact you are worse because you KNOW how damaging it is but you're going to do it anyway.
Two wrongs don't make a right.
you should get a divorce if you don't have kids
If you have kids seek help- counseling. Also get a frikkin' HIV test while your at it. Your wife is a total flooz
Sounds like you and your wife need some marriage counceling!!
It's like my mom used to say to me "If your friend jumps off the bridge would you do it to?"
Revenge is not a good thing!!
She knows she did something wrong. She knows that she cheated on you but she won't admit it. It's her war inside that's tearing her apart. I would like to tell you to be a better man, to be stronger, not to stoop to her level.
You have to talk about this situation with your wife. You cannot let it go, If not, it might happen again in the future.
Are you okay to have a wife that does that.
or if a husband does that.
She tells you the kind of person she is. She "told" you who she is.
Whether you accept that, is up to you.
RIGHT....go get some...all's fair in love and marriage...i usually don't condone cheating..BUT she sounds like the deserves it...
i agree with u dawg
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