A year ago my mum died of cancerMe and my dad are the only ones left now.Im only 11 and i have to try and do everything by myself.When my mum died my dad promised me that everything was going to be ok and that noone could ever replace my mum.I believed him.Recently though things have changed. My dads hardly ever at home and he doesnt seem to have any time for me anymore. I always ask my dad where he's going and he always replies 'Oh dont worry im just going out with my friends to the pub, I'll only be half an hour'.So I stay up waiting for him, but he never comes back. When I wake up the next morning hes in bed. I ask him why he didnt come home but he always says 'we decided to go out for a meal'.But then this woman was constantaly ringing asking for my dad. And when i read my dads texts they were all from this woman saying 'Meet you tonight at the pub' and stuff.Last week on my bday my dad wasnt there all day bcuz he was with her all day.
its killing me inside, please help me xxxxxx
I am a mother of an 11year old and my heart is breaking for you. I am concerned you are being left at home on your own. Can you talk to a grandparent or aunty. Your dad is probably trying to deal with your mums death as he can. But to me you are my concern My dad died when I was 25 and to this day I feel part of me is missing.You have been delt a rough card but I want you to carry your mum with you you'll make her proud. I have a very strong feeling on me that you are going to be very sucessfull when you grow up. But at the moment you are still growing and need a loving guidence.Talk to your dad and anyone else you feel comfortale with. I wish you all the best andy only wish I could help more.
aww hun i'm soo sorry about this...there's nothing you can do except talk to him, and tell him how you feel...don't yell, just say it make him feel your pain...your his child he will care...
look your dad doest care 4 u.might b he mitt nt b having good realitions wit your mom.u jst have 2 mak him realise that u need him n u r alone.u must b very careful n never loose hope.
Can you talk to a relative, your dad's mom or dad (your grandparents) or your dad's sister or brother or someone? Tell them how you feel so they can talk to him and hopefully straighten him out.
If your relatives are of no help, talk to a school counselor.
If you ask me, your dad should be put in jail for leaving an underage child at home alone! It is against the law to leave you at home, dear, no matter how lonely he may be feeling after losing his wife (your mom). you lost the same person too!
oh baby
everything will turn out okay.
just give it time. your dad is probably going out with the woman to forget about your mum because he thinks about her all the time, and thinking about her will only make him more upset and hurt. If you open up to someone it can make it a whole lot easier. Talk to a friend or someone in the family, also if your feeling up to it, talk to your dad and tell him you knows whats going on. Lighten the mood when he is at home and try to have a laugh or persuade him to do something with you.He will wake up and realise hes got a lovely kid at home.
good luck .x
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