I am talking to this woman in text who I met off a date site and she has said they we are not dating so she doesnt have to answer my texts right away and we argued about it in text its dumb I know. Tonight she said she could go for some cuddling and I said no we are not dating though, she says " you can cuddle with anyone !!!" I dont think so I think if a woman cuddles with a guy then she is dating him or wants to date him. Women don't cuddle with guy "friends" , but that's just how I think . Anyone else with opinions ??????????? help me out here ??? this woman is driving me nuts giving me mixed signals !!!
youre right, women DO NOT cuddle with just friends. only with people they like. she was probably just teasing you.
Actually, I got confused with your concern....anyway, in terms of that "cuddling" stuff, it depends on how close you are with each other, or it depends on the orientation you have about "friendship". If you are not comfortable, then don't do it...
Cuddling can be normal with friends who are "very close", the kind with "brother-sister" relationship, and it supposed to have no malice.
Again, It depends on your ORIENTATION, and COMFORT:)
Be careful, anyway, and always watch your moves. Genuine friendship supposed to have no malice at all.
Good Luck!
I cuddle with guy friends. I like doing this. They consider it weird though, and many of them have gotten mixed messages. Whats so bad about cuddling? It is completely natural, and comforting. It makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. I have done this on a few occations, and it can be awkward if you dont tell a guy first. Be thankful that shes telling you that you and her are just friends. This way you wont be disappointed. What else are you going to do tonight, sit around alone? Go cuddle, and be happy!
It'd really depend on the friend, but my I'd say yes.
I am generally not comfortable with PDA unless I know the person very well, but if the nature of our relationship was very clear to both I would have no problem with it.
If I was uncertain how he felt about me I would steer clear to avoid sending the wrong message.
DUDE! hello. women who cuddle with their guy friends are what people call "sluts." cuddling is for those who have feelings for eachother, not just a thing to do with your friends. this girl is fishy. and tell this girl to be straight up with you! she could be sneaky.
I like to cuddle. It doesn't mean you have to be dating the person you are cuddling with. But if you have never even met this girl, that's messed up.
I would have to say NO. If it's not a man im attracted to, then it would have to be a pillow, stuffed animal, blanket etc.
same reason a girl cuddles with her girlfriends. To her these guys aren't guys at all, they are girls to her (but I bet that the guy really wants to **** the girl).
well i still kinda stuggle with my ex cuz were still friends and i also cuddle with my best guy friend but i like him
chicks do that, it is wierd but they do that
ummmmmmmm i cuddle and slept with my guy friend but i didn't do it we are friends i am dating and he is dating
Sure. But I wouldn't really cuddle with a friend if you had a girlfriend tho. So I guess it depends...
I've cuddled with a friend, two perhaps at times when I was feeling so emotionally down and out that I trusted those two friends to just hold me, or cuddle, as you call it. I am not a player, and the cuddling happened on only two occasions. No more resulted from it and we are still friends. The two guys and I.
Perhaps most men expect cuddling or being as compassionate to someone when they sense a little TLC is needed, will lead to sex. That , then, is their scam, and they are exploiting a situation which could be a HUMAN, simply HUMAN connection.
I feel fortunate that my two friends were able and willing to simply hold me when I JUST needed to be held, and did respect that need, not think I was playing them like a dumb fish.
But it is rare that this happens.
I do not date, nor ever have dated these two friends - nor have we cuddled since the times when simply caring holding was granted.
For that we've learned a further appreciation of one another's more human capacities, not the more common; predatory!
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