I'm 19 was in a relationship for 3 years, I got dumped, love the girl, she was my first kiss, lost my virginity to her. I was a loser when I met her, didnt have a lot of friends, didnt do much but work on cars and hang out. I have been having a great summer so far, but approaching girls for me is not something I am good at.
Tonight I went to eat with some friends, the one friend got the number of the hostest, and he is always getting numbers. I am a good guy, and am not out to just have a one night stand. I know I need more confidence but when it comes down to it, I wish it was easier. Maybe it just takes practice?
Casual talking is always a good way to spark the right girls interest. If your cute that will just help even more. You'll most likely know if shes interested or not just by how she responds to what you say. Give her compliments, just one or two, but dont be creepy about it. Compliment her on how shes working (if you were to talk to the hostest). Smile, be friendly, alittle shyness is cute, but still show your confident and just go with the flow. Dont feel bad if shes not into you... Just move on and keep going.
The trick is is to clearly put it out there that your interested, but NOT TOO MUCH. And if she starts to show interest in you, thats when you hold back alittle and let her do some of the talking. Always listen to what shes saying, BUT let there be some times where you take your attention off of her for a second or two. Let her work for your attention. This drives girls crazy, in a good way.
Then maybe when your about to leave, ask if she'd like to go out sometime for a drink or dinner or something. Or if you have a party or somewhere acceptable to attend, ask if she wants to go. Do this casually, like if she were to say no, it wouldnt bother you. This will obviously get a number out of her if she accepts.
Be confident is the number one rule...dont be scared to talk to a girl. We really dont bite, and honestly, a guy that shows interest in us will just make our day. You can tell if a girl is a ***** or not by how she carries herself. If you want, observe the girl you want to approach before you make your move and try to read her. You'll be able to tell if shes having a bad day or if shes just a sour apple period, which obviously you dont want.
Good luck :)
just talking to girls
starting out as friends and flirting with them
I would say, stick to what you know..
your argument seems very similar to mine. I am a relationship guy...
I was in a 3 year relationship and then things went wrong I had to finish her for different reasons, she was my "first love" my best thing to do, everything...!
Then I met another girl who took advantage of my goodwill...
The more you rush into another relationship you will only find whats wrong... and not "mr(miss) right".
I hate being along and I don't go out that often but at the end of the day, you know that one day you will meet somebody who WILL want to be with you for the rest of your life..
I am 21 years old, and I found somebody but its a sticky situation, I have to wait, If I don't I could push it away.
If you rush a cake (when baking it), You will spoil it.
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