I have been casually dating lately, and everything has been going well. I've met a few very attractive, interesting, fun, young women whom I've enjoyed going on 1 to 2 dates with so far.
The problem I'm running into is that last night my date was AMAZING. Couldn't have asked for anything more perfect. The restaurant, atmosphere, food, conversation, and company was phenomenal, and at the end of the night, my date asked if we could meet up again tonight. Well, the problem now is that the other girl I went on a date with earlier this week (not from last night) expects to hang out with me tonight... I don't want to burn any bridges because its way to early to commit to just one person, so what do I do? I'd like to meet up again with the woman from last night but I'm not sure how to cancel with the other woman without her thinking that I am blowing her off... Any advice?
Should I meet up with the woman from last night or with the other woman tonight?
The one your more interested in... seems to me like the woman from last night. SOoo- Cancel with the other one by telling her that something imporant has came up last mintue, ( she doesnt know you well enough yet, that you will have to explain yourself) ... tell her your sorry for the last mintue notice.. but youll call her tomroorw and arrange the next best time for HER to hang out again, becuase you really do want to...!! Then its in her hands, just make yourself avaiable the next time she wants to hang out.... even if you don't like her THAT much after this next date... go out with her once more for courtesy. Then tell her couple days later that you dont think its going to work out .. relationship wise but youd like to chill....
your choice
I think you need to be honest with the other girl, and tell her that, you like her very much, and that at this point in your life you would like to be friends, and that you hope that she could understand where you are coming from.
the one from lass night
When you are dating around, you should always pick the person who you feel good with at the moment. Otherwise, if you choose the girl you had prior commitments with, you might end up having a horrible time trying to get the other girl off your mind.
Face it dude, you have to blow one of them off. No girl wants to be #1 ot of a field of 2 or three. We want to be #1 ot of 1.
If one finds out that the other even exists you are in big trouble. I know that its all still casual, but if you want to take a next step with a girl you really connect with then you need to go ahead and throw the extra cargo in the sea.
Be a man and make a decision.
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