I had pretty,sweet woman, maybe a bit young for me, but she really loved me and showed it many ways.She had a habit of lying to many people, but in our relationship she was fathful and caring, available in many ways. I felt lucky, happy, until I did my usual thing in relationships: got bored, started to take it for granted, going out and flirting occassionally. I left for 6 weeks on business and she had an affair. I returned, over-reacted. She lost friends from her behavior, felt alone, so she left the area and found work in a large city 8 hours away. After a month she returned to get personal items from her mom's home, and I contacted her. We met for 3 evenings, she was hesitant but open to me, we made love each evening.Tomorrow she leaves, possibly to never return,says she is happy and busy in her new life, that she just wants to get established, get own place, doesn't want any guys.Tonight we meet.What can I say to win her love and trust. I would move there gladly if she accepts.??
yea darlin
u did screw itup
how about giving her the space she is asking for? obviously you both still care otherwise you'd not be together everynite
However, be prepared to carry the name 'sexbuddy'
You could just let her know that you'd like to try again and that you'd love to visit her
i hate to tell you this but its over...set her free...if she still loves you and comes back after along time she's yours
do u really want to salvage this relationship?
hey buddy just dont waste time go and express your feeling to her immediatly befor she leaves prefferably take a gud greating card which wil express her your feeling and a rose.
tell her that u just can't live without her & that u're so sorry for the way things ended & if she gives u another chance - u will be the man that she deserves to have in her life - lots of luck... :)
Sounds as if she had a lot of problems. You don't mention any of your own besides a love for her...so without that info, I could only say I hope she doesn't accept, for your sake, unless she is ready and willing to change her ways.
She has to want to learn trust for herself. You can try, but it's going to be hard without her cooperation.
She might need that time away from you to learn.
I have no advice. I wish you best of luck. You sound willing to admit your mistakes... of becoming bored and taking her for granted. I hope you find you answer. Big hug!
well,try talking to her,tell he straight all that you feel about her and get to know her feelings.....if she accepts good for you or else i suggest you leave her alone,cos if she doesnt want to be with you then you cannot force her cos that'ss look like desperation...she has moved on with life,its not an easy decision to move town,m sure somethings really hurt her and that hurt has moved her far away from all this.....i suggest it'll be better for you too to move on with life and learn from past experiences and mistakes!!good luck!!
Its over dude. Begging might help.
i am sure this hurts a great deal, but she cheated on you, there is no room for that kind of crap in anyones life. and i am sure you didnt over react. and if she dosnt want a man in her life right now probably means she has someone else out in the city. and she is using you the way she used the guy she cheated on you with.
well son, i've been married for 12 years, so i know what i'm talking about. pursue her with everything in you. if you have to leave your city, move and find a new job, do it. she's testing you. she wants to know if she is worth the effort.
there's a book called the five love languages. get it and read it. it's less than 15 bucks. you may have to order it, so go to borders and ask about it. i normally dont recommend books, but this is a good one. it will change your life. it's a test, so she probably wont say what she means. if you want her in your life, it is up to you. "mine is not the reason why, mine is the do or die"
if you love her you will let her go and if she loves you she'll come back for you its not right for you to ask her to stay when shes happy elsewhere you should try the relaationship when she moves down their see how it goes this time dont take her for granted
It takes two to tango!
You were a 'Sugar Daddy'! Of course, the sweet young thing is going to accommodate you.
You were bored and stepped out....she had an affair or two...or more.
I am pretty certain their were other problems between you two and it went ignored. The fireworks finale is over. What I speculate now, is that you are a friend with benefits. Are you willing to accept this, knowing she has moved on with her life?
Please! Don't beg! Others have already seen how much of a fool you made of yourself. Why precipitate it to a lower level?
you missed your chance. i'm sorry, but the only one to blame is you. take full responsibility for your actions.
Dude.what is your malfunction? are that much of a puss?.the ***** cheated on you.she must have a solid gold vagina.........dick her down one last time and when your done...kick her out and tell her that you hope she fails miserably in any endeavor she undertakes and that she never call or contact you again. Wishy washy milktoasts like you make it easy for women to step all over them. You give men a bad name. man up dude
You were both at fault - live and learn
to late if she has found some one more caring than you obviusluy were why would she ever come back
She had a habit of lying to many people, she cheated on you and you think it is your fault!!
I understand your heart is broken but for heaven's sake don't take all the blame.
just beg her and tell her you have realised your mistakes and tell her what you are willing to give up for her and try to show her you are serious this time.I believe she still has feelings for you else she wont have had sex with you again.i wish you good luck with her and i advise you think before you act next time.
If you love her, let her go. If you are meant to be with this woman, you will be. Right now, you don't seem to have enough personal growth to deserve her.
Get some help with your immaturity, inability to commit and insecurities. Perhaps she won't look so attractive to you then.
I love you and I'm so very sorry for taking "us" for granted. You are my whole life, this time baby it will be a dream come true.
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