So I met this woman online we talked for a little then met about a week ago. Our first date was going great we were laughing and having fun. When dinner came she fed me lol ... only a couple times it was the first real time I've had sushi ... I still don't like it. Then we decided to go back to her place I went to get my truck and she dissapeared I spent 30 mins waiting and looking for her I didn't find her. I assumed she wasn't intersted and ditched me I mean I thought things were going great but I usually think wrong when it comes to women. A couple days later she e-mailed me apologizing saying her phone died I didn't show up where I ws supposed to blah blah blah. I told her I didn't want to see her again at which point she practically begged me for a second chance after a while I agreed wensday we would go to a movie but she had to come see me she lives like 30 mins away and she was paying. she said that's fine and made me promise I would go with her that I wasn't just saying sure finally tuesday comes along and I realize she has the next day off so I ask her if she wants to come down after work she says yes she would really like that. She come down and we have a great night that eventually leads to several hours of sex. The morning comes and she says she needs to leave she's going to go have lunch with her mom then she has to go home to take car of the dog. We reconfirm our plans to meet at 5pm to go to dinner and a movie and now various other activites. 5:10 comes along she show's up with her little sister and she says something came up and her mom needs her to baby sit I say fine and offer to let her baby sit at my house where I have more than enough room and a PS3 and several board games to play. She says she doesn't want her sister talking about us to her family yet. Understandable I say fine. She makes it sound like it's only going to be like an hour or two I send her several text and don't get any back well 10 pm comes along I finally get a call from her she says she's on her way home she needs to go take care of the dog and she's not coming back down she didn't have the gas. I offer to go up and pick her up and bring her back down more or less we get in an argument about this situation. This morning she text me saying she's sorry this and that. she calls me and we talk she says I make her feel like she's lieing all the time which I haven't even once said your lieing I tell her how she makes me feel like I don't matter in any way but a friend. She only calls me, text me, and sees me when it's easy for her. Either way we talk and decide to both try and avoid doing both. we make plans at 1pm to see each other tonight she says she will let me know once she knows exactly when and she wont wait till the last minute like she's been doing like she'll call me and say lets go out now. At 7 she sends me a text and says I'm still cleaning my house .. which is what she said she had to do earlier and says she will let me know if she's done anytime soon. implying she wont be done for a while. She has to work in the morning and i'm sure she doesn't want to be up until 4 in the morning again. So I try calling her and she doesn't asnwer the phone I called like 3 times no answer sent her text no answer. Now she just signed online not answering my IMs. When ever I tell her I'm done with her she practically begs me to see her again and then she like I don't matter why does the do that? She also always acuses me of saying she's lying and she feels she needs to prove she's not but I don't think i've said once your lying do you think she is lying to me about this and that and she feels guilty thus why she always says i'm not lying ... if that makes any sense. What do you think the deal is with this woman any help is appriciated. Yeah just left saw her just got back she now wants to see me again tomorrow night all night and saturday.What's her deal?
I'm not sure what it is she's trying to do, but I think it's better if you leave it now or risk getting even more hurt. One of my friends just came out of a relationship that was like this. In fact, he was going out with another one of my friends. He obviously liked her more than she did him, she had agreed to go out with him because she didn't know how to say no. it took them months to hold start holding hands, and they never went on a date because she never goes anywhere. He finally ended it because he was so frustrated.
I think you should do the same because it doesn't seem like you two are going anywhere. And it's not fair to you to express your emotions just to have her pretend to reciprocate them then take them back. And no offense to her, but she sounds like more work than she's worth. Perhaps she just likes the thrill of the chase and not the actual relationship. If you can, meet with her and tell her how you feel (everything - it won't help if you hold back).
i think she's trying to be funny. of course i don't know what's really going through her mind, but should you let this woman confuse you? i don't think it's worth it. and as a matter of fact, i think you know she's lying too even though you did not say that.
wait dude,when u ask her to ***k off she comes beggin back to u n has sex with u.n u dont like this?ur kiddin me right?sorry if am soundin insensitive but i hate women's confused attitude.u wanna ***k her then continue playin the game else dump her.wot are u anywayz gonna gain by knowin wot she's thinkin?A Phd?
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