he just met this woman online tonight and wants to marry her on Monday~the day after tomorrow.He already has a marriage license for me & him that lasts for 60 days. Is this phukked up or what???Can he do this???
dump him, amd run as fast as you vcan, he is a real loser
yes he can he has freewill just like you to so let that turd go and get you real winner whom don't fall into lust so easy , thats a sign that if you married himyou'll be in marriage of misery and deceit cus he'll be having internet affairs all your marriage
better to find out now than waste your life on unhappiness
dump that freak, that is ridiculous.
It is better you found out now before you were married. It sounds like he is still on the prowl and not really ready for marriage. marriage has a lot of ups and downs and he is already running out! that should tell you something. You deserve someone that loves just you and treats you the way you deserve to be treated. count your blessing and move on. It will hurt but do you really want to deal with a person that is willing to throw away everything for someone he just met?Not healthy. and yes he can do this he just needs a new one they may make him wait it out and he may come to his senses but with what you know now do you want to go there? I wish you the best and know someone will come along and you will mean the world to them and that is what you deserve!
I would walk in the opposite direction from him, you cannot marry a man whom you cannot trust and who changes his mind about who he wants to marry. He sounds too immature to even think about getting married.
Ok to be honest with you your bf has a problem if he's already applied for a marriage license and then wants to up and marry someone he barely knows. Real love doesnt work like that and if anything he's in lust more than love. If he had second thoughts he should have told you something before applying for a marriage license with you. He wasted your time by doing this because he's the one in the wrong for not telling you he changed his mind. You deserve better and there's too many good and nice guys out there who are not that immature and shady and will treat you the way you deserve to be treated like a queen.
Sure is... but yep!! You better dump this loser and RUN FAR and F A S T !!!!
He's a slimeball. Say goodbye to him.
RUN FAST AND FAR.
Yes the creep can do this, just because you have a license doen't mean you have to use it.
Be thankfull you found out what kind of guy he is, (I used guy because trust me he's not a man).
Good luck
Get out of it. Even if you marry him he will probably cheat on you in the future.
Yes he can marry her. I know your feelings are probably hurt, but it is better that you end it with him now than later. He probably just wasn't ready for marriage to begin with and is just using this as a cop out so that you think he is marrying someone else so you can leave him and he can be "free".
Get out of there as fast as you can!! Even if he changes his mind, do you want to be with someone who is ready to dump you that fast? You know you deserve better treatment than that.
he can do this and then you need to let him go. if you try to keep him you will get hurt mentally and emotionally and that would be bad. i have seen this happen to friends and they wished they walked away with a few tears never to speak to the creep again
A marriage license is a way for the state you live in to earn money - I think it's nothing but a money sapping "document." It is not "marriage" and you don't need a divorce. The "license" is completed and filed with the state vital statistics department by whomever marries the couple AFTER the couple of married. Frankly, it means nothing.
I would thank my lucky stars that you found the truth out about him now as opposed to after you were married!
He could be having real cold feet, changed his mind and this is the only "mature" way he can figure out to call off the wedding.
i think, u got fooled..he didnt really just met her one day and ask her to marry him... she was really the one the he knows long and wants to marry and not u.. ur just his second choice.. haha.. or maybe can also she is his second choice and he chose her..
you poor thing...leave that ******
He can do what he wants...but it's better to find out before you get married that he's a loser moron. Dump him, let him be with this 'woman online' (it's probably a man pretending to be a woman!!), then when he comes to his senses and comes crawling back to you, laugh in his face and tell him to f-off!! Good luck!!
I believe he can do it, as long as he hasn't offically married you. Be glad you just got a license and didn't actually get married, he sounds like a jerk.
he can void yours out. but then he would have to wait to get a marriage license..if i was you i wouldn't stick around for him. he sounds like he doesnt know what a relationship is, or how to respect a lady..leave him..online relationships don't last..she probably is just stringing him along..you'll have the last laugh trust me
What do you care if he can do this or not. Get the h ell out while you can! Seriously, are you stupid? Get out! Dump the freak faster than a breakfast of refried beans and extra spicy salsa.
what you need to do is put the marriage license through the shredder and leave him. he sounds crazy and you will be crazy too if you stay with him.
the marriage license is not valid until you get married, so yes he can do it, you should want to be with him if he dumps you for someone else, his relationship is going to fail with you and her.
Umm.. That's crazy talk, you got yourself into a big hole. Good Luck. He's an a** hole.
Don't even bother trying to work this out, he is just a waste of your time, you'd be miuch better of on your own, and then have the oppurtunity to meet better guys
I don't think its f**** up but more of a blessing in disguise. I know it hurts and I know that you may have been serious with every intent of spending the rest of your life with him but be very grateful you found out now. Lots of women find out years later after going thru a messy divorce that their husbands were not serious to begin with.
Be grateful you did not have a wedding with this man (should you choose to call him that).
It wasn't meant to be with him and you have been blessed with finding out before it got really ugly.
Your real man will marry you one day and you will be very happy . You just haven't met him yet. Be patient. While you are getting ready for him (think someone not good for you is exiting your life so your real man can come into your life) God is making him ready as well so that you will be prepared for one another.
In terms of the legal, since you did not get married you shouldn't have anything to worry about. A marriage license mainly states that two people intend to and have a legal right to marry. But if those people do not go on to marry then the license does not hold weight.
dude...that's terrible...i'll pray for you...
I am sorry that you even have to ask for advice on this!!!!
Dump his crazy azz.... this does not sound like the beginning of a wonderful life together.... nobody needs that kind of confusion.... say "bu-bye.... your leaving... bu-bye....bu-bye now"
No its not phuckked up.............he's phuckked up !
Let him do it....trust me you dont want him
Did you both sign the document yet in front of a witness ? .. If yes, .. then he has to divorce you first. If not .. then he is free to do as he pleases .. as are you. Good Luck ! :)
wow. i think he's phycho. leave his A$$. please. yeah it is fuqed up. wow.
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